The Ephphatha Coffee-Corner Ministry

In the past months or so, for some reason I had been bombarded by a few individuals in Facebook to defend my faith. Looking back, I traced what I believe to be the probable cause of it all to be due to a somewhat spirited defense which I put up when these individuals attacked the devotions we give our Blessed Mother in the practice of our faith.

Since that fateful day, I was regularly asked to "clarify" matters regarding the tenets of our faith... While some of the questions were rather easy to answer, there were quite a few which were somewhat more challenging as these skeptics came armed with bible verses to contradict other bible verses... When confronted with the trickier ones, I was tempted to just feign ignorance & dismiss it out of mind... Somehow, I had always managed to respond to these sometimes provocative attacks... I guess perhaps God is using all this as a means of enriching & strengthening my faith through research, reading, reflection & prayer...

One of my major source of information is undoubtedly the internet... I have a number of websites which I had found to be very informative bookmarked for easy access... And one day while researching on a particular topic, I googled up two names from the past... 

In my search results, the names of Dr Jeffrey Goh and his wife, Angie appeared... I first came across Mdm Angie through Sunday School activities at the turn of the millenium... Back then, I was a young impressionable person who had just started out in career with a million & one things I wanted to do to make a difference...

Deemed to old to be an "altar boy" lest the term would require amendment to "altar men" I was plain old parishioner for a couple of years... I was a choir member as well previously but decided against returning to that fold considering the need for the weekly practice and a somewhat rigid Mass attendance weekly... You see, I had the tendencies to be a church hopper even back then... For the uninitiated, I love church hopping every week...  I'd define the phrase "church hopping" as the act of going from church to church every weekend... Not really a good idea actually as you are unable to form a strong bond with a particular parish... 

Anyways, going back to Mdm Angie & Sunday school, there was a plea one weekend for volunteers for Sunday school... Figuring that this would be a good way to contribute, I signed up thinking that my duties would be more of an assistant... Imagine my shock when I was given a class of my own... And to make it worse was the fact that the class was to be in Malay!!!!

Well, somehow I got through the year with some bumps and bruises but thankfully relatively unscathed... I got my first Malay language bible that year... I had problems with the language barrier but somehow I managed to do it... Don't ask me how... I guess God truly got me through that year... Anyway, after the 1st year experience, I was given an English class assignment for the 2nd year... And it was definitely a whole lot easier as I was brought up through English catechism classes all the while...

And that was when I got to know Mdm Angie... Not know her as in know a close friend know... But rather knew who she was... And she helped out with materials back then... Sometime in 2001, a study on St Paul's 1st letter to the Corinthians was organized for the Sunday school teachers... And that was where I met Dr Jeffrey for the first time... I had probably bumped into him in church before but wasn't aware of who he was back then...

Now, my first impression of Dr Jeffrey wasn't exactly a rosy one... I remembered as he was introduced to us by the Sunday school coordinator then (don't know if he still is now), Paul thinking that he (Dr Jeff) didn't look particularly friendly... I could still remember how I sank in my seat wondering what made me agree to sign up 10 Tuesday evenings in the first place...

Never judged a book by its' cover... An overused cliched phrase but nevertheless true... Especially where Dr Jeff was concerned... He turned out to be extremely knowledgeable in theology with his personal brand of humor... His sessions were extremely informative & I found myself looking forward to the next session every week... 

As with most good things, they end far too quickly... In a flash, the ten weeks were up & the sessions ended... I actually found myself missing those sessions... If memory serves me right, I could recall that another session was organized the following year on another topic... Unfortunately due to work commitments, I was unable to sign up... It wasn't too long later that the first seeds that would lead to my eventual "crisis of faith" were sown that led to me being estranged from the church for almost 6 years...

Anyway, I chanced upon the website of Dr Jeff & Mdm Angie recently. The website is called ECCM which is a short for The Ephphatha Coffee-Corner Ministry. For the initiated, the term "Ephphatha" means "Be opened". This term can be found in the Gospel of Mark 7:32-35 where Christ healed a man who was both deaf & dumb.

Quoting from the website;

"If Ephphatha represents freedom from an obstinate place where one is deaf and voiceless, then “Coffee-Corner” symbolizes a freedom from the strictures of formality and structures artificially imposed on the people of faith. It is a place where people can relax and speak freely as equals about just anything under the sun. It offers a space for discussions that take in different dimensions and perspectives, so we may see more clearly where people stand and why. It provides a forum for questions to be put and answers to be explored. It presumes that we all have a voice, are capable of hearing, and have opinions of our own, and are not inhibited from speaking up. To be sure, our little coffee-corner aims to help open our ears to hear more deeply and our eyes to see more clearly, so that we might go on to speak more courageously and to live more truthfully."

A little background on Dr Jeff & Mdm Angie... Dr Jeff is a lawyer by training having obtained his LLB from Buckingham University & qualified as Barrister-at-Law at the prestigious Lincoln's Inn, London. Mdm Angie is a qualified teacher. 

The lovely couple studied Theology and Canon Law at the Catholic University of Leuven in Belgium. Both obtained a Sacrae Theologiae Baccalaureus (S.T.B) in Sacred Studies there. Mdm Angie also took an M.A. in REligious Studies while Dr Jeff obtained a Licentiate of Canon Law (J.C.L.) and a Ph.D in Religious Studies. 

They have taught theology at St Peter's College, a major seminary which caters to the formation of the clergy in East Malaysia for over 10 years. It came to my attention as well that they have both been travelling extensively throughout the Catholic Conference of Malaysia-Singapore-Brunei to conduct retreats and seminars as well as to be invited lecturers at official insitutions overseas. 

They have also been writing and publishing books for a while now. A series, which is published annually and entitled "Christian Living Today" is co-edited by Dr Jeff & Fr Emmanuel Katongole, an Associate Research Professor of Theology & World Christianity since 2000. Also written by them is the book entitled "Living the Gospel: St Paul's Call t Match Words with Actions in First Corinthians"... Now that is a book I will be looking for when I return to Kuching, whenever that will be...

In their website, Dr Jeff & Mdm Angie would reflect from their unique perspective on matters which are relevant to us today, especially where our faith is concerned. They both welcome feedback as well as participation from everyone in the spirit of love. A number of readers had sent some over issues of the faith to Dr Jeff & Mdm Angie for clarification. I find that the responsiveness & speed to which they answered any emails to be pleasing. How often do we get frustrated at unanswered communiques in this fast moving world today?

Perhaps you have any questions that you have burning inside but have yet to find an answer to? What are you waiting for? Get right on ahead and visit Dr Jeff & Mdm Angie's website at The Ephphatha Coffee-Corner Ministry

Word has it that they are both coming over to KL next year for a retreat. Let's hope that comes to fruition. I know I'd be among the first, if not the first to sign up!

Adam, The Musical - An Uncommon Love

I haven't been to the theater for a while now. I guess it must have been a decade since I last did. To be fair, live performing art has never been popular amongst the masses in the country. 

"Adam is about the dangerous time we live in, of suspicion and fear of people and things we don’t know. It is about compassion and strength, and how these qualities can turn the bleakest days into one with light, even if it is just a faint one.

Adam is about finding true love, and knowing that we can be very lucky after all." 

Excerpt from The Actors Studio website

Having heard a lot about the show Adam, The Musical which was a collaboration between The Actor's Studio and Malaysian AIDS Council, I decided to pop by and check it out. It so happened that the day I chose to attend the show was when they had an after show party for the latest installment of Sex and the City at Rootz at Lot 10's rooftop. So, I had a lot of eye candy to take in as I waited for the doors to be opened.

Now, why am I writing about a musical here you may be wondering? Well, I thought that it was a brilliantly written play and it drove home some truths which we may have chosen to ignore in our lives. Also, I believe that the way the show was written and executed was a perfect example of embracing differences in a multiracial society which IMHO is sadly lacking amongst Malaysian today.

The show had a tagline which went "An Uncommon Love" which I thought was probably well chosen in light of the show's central theme. As the crowd was milling about outside the theater, there was a staff member who went about selling programs. When I was offered one, I cheekily said that I'd have to see if I enjoyed the show first to which she smiled sweetly and said "Of course"... Perhaps she thought I was a penny pinching scrooge of some sort... :p

Anyway, despite the show being held on a weekday, I was somewhat surprised to see the place somewhat packed. It seemed that a majority of the crowd were made up of young professionals, somewhere between the mid 20s to late 30s. There were a smattering of foreigners as well in the crowd.

When the lights dimmed and the show started, I was initially a bit lost with the appearance of Mek Mek Besar who, near the end of the show eventually revealed that he was sometimes know by his other name, Michael the Archangel. I thought that his costume was somewhat over the top... A bit like a cross between a Roman toga and PJs... But you've got to love his sense of humor and how he made the character come to life with his energetic movements and booming voice... Played by Mark Sobels, full mark to the Archangel... A whole lot better performance than the one by Paul Bettany (hold the jeers please, I personally like him - just not in Legion")

Mek Mek Besar aka Michael in a comtemplative mood

And the crowd roared with laughter when Tria Aziz who looked like she belonged in an asylum rather than on stage came on stage with her bulging eyes. I actually thought that her eyeballs were going to pop out! Unfortunately, the photo which is posted in this entry which came from Malaysian AIDS Council (MAC) Facebook album wasn't one with her pushing her white wheel chair around stage like a DUI driver.

Tria drove home a point when she said in one of her scenes that she didn't mind being called "Keh Leng Ah Po" by the nurses. The phrase roughly translates to "Indian Auntie" which is considered a derogatory term by some in the country. In fact the word Keh Leng (sometimes spelled as Keling) started an argument of sorts between politicians a few years back when it was used in speech. I guess we can have a choice as to whether we'd allow a term to affect us or otherwise.

The opening scene was completed with the ensemble walked down the terrace with lighted candles and sang the opening number for the show.

We were then given a background of the characters in the show. The spotlight was of course on Adam, who was engaged to Sylvia with a wedding coming up soon. An interesting twist was that Adam was a Muslim while Sylvia was brought up a Catholic. Elsa, Sylvia's sister was dead set against the union and tried her utmost to talk Sylvia out of it.

Cast members with Director Joe Hafsham (Front row 3^rd Right), Dato Faridah Merican (Front row 3^rd Left), Malik Taufiq (Front Row 2^nd Right), Tria Aziz (Front Row 2^nd Left), Mark Sobels (Standing 1^st Right), Tabitha Kong (Standing 3^rd Right), Sandra Mannas Wolf (Standing 4^th Right)

Elsa, which was played by Sandra Mannas Wolf was the resident villain of the show. Her portrayal of the bitchy and condescending sister made her scenes one to look forward to. And she sang brilliantly as well! She wouldn't be out of place in Desperate Housewives!!! And I meant that as a compliment to her acting chops!!!

Auntie Noni which was played by Dato Faridah Merican was Adam's aunt who brought him up since he was a small boy after Adam's mother (Auntie Noni's sister) passed on from what we can assume to be an AIDS connected ailment. A touching scene was when she told Sylvia of what she thought when Adam first met her - "Do you know, the first day he met you; his face was shining like full  moon in Ramadan. He laughed at me, held my hands, look into my eyes with a smile and I know, maybe this boy don't need me anymore."

I thought that despite what other may say about her, I felt that Dato Faridah brought to life the character of Auntie Noni. Her portrayal of  the character reminded me of a mother's unconditional love for her child. How she said that no child must be reminded of the terrible way his mother died. How she said that she'd rather will her beloved sister to die than to continue suffering. There were some grouses over her singing where reviews were concerned but I thought that it was live performance for Pete's sake!!!! Not some studio recording!!!

Moving on, there was the two scene stealer, the transvestites which was played by Mo Dee and Fairuz Tauhid who probably had the cheekiest lines of the night. When singing about using condoms for intimate relations, they moaned (forgive the pun) about those who refused to sheath their "member"... 

"When it comes to protection, the hardest part is persuasion... If they still say no, I'll stroke their ego until they rise and say they need a jumbo size..." How can you keep a straight face after a line like that sung with them grabbing the crotch of a guy???!!!!!!!!

Unfortunately, my one main grouse about the transvestites was the delivery of their lines, either in song or dialogue. At times, their pronunciation was rushed which resulted in me struggling to catch their words. While I can understand that their Manglish is an important part of the show, perhaps it would be good to consider the areas where it can be used as some of the punch lines which were delivered was rendered meaningless to those who have no knowledge of Malay. It's unfortunate that an expatriate couple sitting in front of me were somewhat clueless when the whole crowd broke into laughter.

Adam, which was played by Malik Taufiq was somewhat average though. Despite his convincing portrayal of a man stricken with HIV, I felt that his singing was a bit weak for a lead, Perhaps he was having an off day so we can't actually blame him for that. Otherwise, I'd say he deserve a 6 out of 10.

The show I attended saw Tabitha Kong in the lead character of Sylvia. And I loved her to bits!!! I loved her  as a seemingly helpless and innocent Sylvia which belied a strong sense of loyalty and love towards Adam. And I thought her singing "Isn't It Strange" was probably my favorite moment of the show. It showed a vulnerable, despairing and shattered Sylvia when confronted with Adam's disease.

MTV Movie awards has an award category for best kiss... Well, believe it or not, the lead characters of Adam and Sylvia actually kissed (or at least pretended to despite looking extremely convincing) on stage somewhere near the end of the show... Perhaps, the local entertainment awards can inaugurate that category by handing the gong to Adam and Sylvia...

In a minimalist setting without too many props, the show was staged and choreographed beautifully. The backdrop was simply projected on via projectors depicting different scenes at the hospital, home, church, mosque etc. Kudos to the Costume Designer, Phin who created an excellent wardrobe for the cast members. And I thought that the dances choreographed by Lex Lakshman Balakrishnan was excellent as well. 

I was somewhat stunned midway through the first session when Sylvia knelt down and prayed the Lord's Prayer as Mek Mek Besar was hovering around and added his unsolicited comments. That is indeed a surprise considering what is happening around the country now where religious fundamentalism is seemingly in the rise and religious tolerance at an all time low. It was definitely a bold move by Director Joe Hafsham and Writer Mark Beau De Silva to include that scene.

Mark Beau De Silva and Joe Hafsham

While some bloggers had criticized the show as ignoring issues such as religious conversion, perhaps it should be remembered that the show was all about a love uncommon... One which transcends illness and religions... After all, when you commit to a lifetime together, didn't you agree to have and to hold, to love and serve in sickness and health, in good times and bad? Of course, we shouldn't lose sight at the social stigma which we brand upon those who are HIV positive.

It was indeed refreshing when Jambu (Mo Dee) spoke on how he removed his wig, make up and lipstick to prepare his brother's body for burial. For a moment there, however fleeting, you actually feel the emotions in the words and you imagine what turmoil he was going through inside. I thought that the projection of a footage of him actually doing that spoiled the desired effect though...

All in all, it was an enjoyable evening at the theater. I'd definitely be a more frequent visitor from this moment forth. As the show ended with the wedding yet to take place, perhaps there's room for a sequel? Adam The Musical Part 2 perhaps? One after the wedding maybe? I'll be the first in line for opening night if that comes into fruition.

In case you were wondering, yes, I bought the program and had a live cast recording of the songs thrown in as well. And I got it during the intermission. Nuff said....

Unfortunately, the run ends today (June 20th)... Perhaps it can be extended or staged again later... I'd definitely go for an encore performance...

Photos from MAC Facebook album & The Actor's Studio website. 

My Side Of The Story

We had a blast last night... I haven't had my hair down in such a long time, it felt good at least for a few hours...

As I made my way back to the hotel where we were all based for the night, I didn't actually feel like sleeping despite the alcohol that I had consumed. Not quite looking forward to another drinking session that the others planned to have at Gypsy Bar nearby, I excused myself with the intention to sleep the effects of the alcohol off.

After a shower, I was somewhat more alert and it seemed that I had washed all the alcohol away down the drain hole. As such, I decided to switch on the TV and chanced upon an episode of Criminal Minds entitled Demonology. It was centered around exorcism which resulted in several deaths, of which one was a childhood friend of one of characters.

There were some questionable opinions or facts put forth in the episode which I do not wish to go into, but I was somehow hooked by the song which played as the episode ended when the character decided to take a walk to clear her mind and she stood in front of a church where she seemingly questions her own faith.

The song sounded quite good that I reminded myself to check it out in the morning. It turned out that the song was sung by an artist calling himself Hodges and was entitled "My Side Of The Story"... Well, the song had much more to it than just sounding good as the lyrics were quite meaningful too...

A cold wind blows
I am shivering
My body aches, as my heart is breaking
Why is life, making me hollow
Why is happiness casting me in the shadows, in the shadows
Hold on, dont turn and walk away
Save me
And I cry these words, but nobody came
I'm all alone, running scared, losing my way in the dark
I tried to get up, stand on a prayer, but I keep crashing down hard
This is my side of the story
Only my side of the story
And nobody cares, nobody's there, no one will hear
My side of the story

Emptiness its all around me, I try to catch my breath, barely surviving
I cant go on and I've come undone there's nothing left in me
Hold on, don't turn and walk away
Save me
And I cry these words, but nobody came
I'm all alone, running scared, losing my way in the dark
I tried to get up, stand on a prayer, but I keep crashing down hard
This is my side of the story
Only my burden to bear
And nobody cares, nobody's there, no one will hear

As I fall down, hold on
As I fall away
I cry these words and nobody came
I'm all alone, running scared, losing my way in the dark
I tried to get up, stand on a prayer, but I keep crashing down hard
This is my side of the story
Only my side of the story
My side of the story
Only my burden to bear
Nobody cares, nobody's there, no one will hear
My side of the story

I'm sure a lot of people could relate to this song especially those who have no one who care for them...

A New Beginning... A New Life....

I just had a somewhat hectic 24 hours. It was a beautiful ceremony nevertheless and I thought that the bride was brilliant in singing the song "i Do" at her own wedding.

The hubby was a mess with the tears falling freely. Thankfully, he did tell me that he'd be a bit emotional but he'd try to keep it under control. With that in mind, I made sure I had two packs of tissues handy. It pays to come over prepared.

I have to admit that the bride had an angelic voice as well. And she sang it so beautifully. It would not be an exaggeration to say that had she sang that way in a competition, she'd be in with a chance of winning.

We all knew that she was a good karaoke singer all the while. But seeing her singing live in a cavernous church with everyone in apt attention was another matter altogether. Speaking for myself, despite the fact that I have known her for less than a year, I could feel her feelings and emotions when she sang the song.

She enunciated the lyrics clearly and all the while she looked at her hubby in the eyes. With her right hand holding the microphone, she held her hubby's hands with her left as she sang it. Clearly in love, it was such a haunting and beautiful rendition of the song. I couldn't wait to get my hands on the video recording of the ceremony to relive that moment again.

At the end of the song, she broke down in tears having kept her composure throughout. And with the microphone still on, she apologized to him. And he took her in his arms and gave her a hug as well as a tender kiss on her cheek. And the priest took that opportunity to introduce the newly married couple to the congregation.

I have been to many weddings in my lifetime. I have attended a mass wedding ceremony where a few couples had their matrimony blessed at the same time. I had also attended traditional Chinese weddings as well as Malay weddings. In terms of the dream white wedding, I guess that I had been to a few.

But, despite everything, I considered this to be the best wedding that I had attended ever. Simply because the stiff upper lip of the couple to not show their emotions wasn't there.

Being somewhat expressive of my emotions especially when I feel strongly over something, I had always wondered if those walking down the aisle really want to do so. At times, they would either seem expressionless or worse of all shell shocked. I thought that seeing a couple so in love with each other and feeling on top of the world as with a bit of fearfulness and excitement thrown in was the real deal.

I spent the night with the groom trying to get him to calm his nerves. What he said as we were lazing around trying to sleep was indeed insightful. He once lived for himself. And his concerns were 90% for himself with the rest for others.

Since meeting her, he resolved that he had to change for the better. And she became the centre of his life. He did everything for her. He told me whenever he was out even for lunch with colleagues he'd be thinking of her. And when he walked past shops in the mall, he'd be thinking about getting something for her.

And now that they'd be spending a lifetime with each other, he was a bit fearful of the future. Fearful for her. Fearful if anything would befall her or himself which would left the other party alone. Fearful of all the uncertainties that life has in store.

It made me reflect on things and people that matters most to me... Do I take them for a ride or do I really show the I care for them everyday?

Well, gtg as I need to attend the ceremonial tea presentation...

Two Words

I was just lazing around on another hot day in the city. Wish I were in East Malaysia now where I could enjoy the Harvest Festival of the Sabahans and Sarawakians.

Anyways, no such luck but I am on leave due to my buddy's wedding this weekend. And we had a rehearsal in church earlier today as I was to be the hubby's bestman & ring bearer... Let's hope I don't misplace that come Saturday... :p

Anyway, after lunch which the soon to be married couple hosted, we scooted off to their new house in Valencia Sierramas near Sungai Buloh to help them with some of their knick knacks for the big day.

I was asked to prepare the wedding booklet which was already printed and required them to be assembled before being tied with a gold thread of some sort. So, I did and as I was putting them together, I saw a part after the blessing where the bride, who is an accomplished singer, would sing a song.

The song was entitled, "Two Words (I Do)". Out of curiosity, I asked the bride of the song and was surprised to hear that the song was sung by Lea Salonga, whose concert I recently attended in KL. Now that she mentioned it, I remembered how she dedicated that song to her husband, who was at the concert as well.

Apparently, the song was composed especially for her wedding. And she sang it at her own wedding after the exchange of vows. My interest piqued, I asked the bride if she had an mp3 of the song which she said she did. I can tell you that if there's a better song for a wedding, I have not found one to match this one.

Just for starters, here's how the lyrics go;

In a while, in a word,
Every moment now returns.
For a while, seen or heard,
How each memory softly burns.
Facing you who brings me new tomorrows,
I thank God for yesterdays,
How they led me to this very hour,
How they led me to this place...

Every touch, every smile,
You have given me in care.
Keep in heart, always I'll,
Now be treasuring everywhere.
And if life should come to just one question,
Do I hold this moment true?
No trace of sadness,
Always with gladness...
'I DO...'

(Instrumental)

Now a song that speaks of now and ever,
Beckons me to someone new,
Unexpected, unexplored, unseen,
Filled with promise coming through.
In a while, in a word,
You and I forever change,
Love so clear, never blurred,
Has me feeling wonderous, strange,
And if life should come to just one question,
Do I face each moment true?
No trace of sadness, always with gladness,
'I DO...'

Never with sadness...
Always with gladness...
'I... DO...'

Try checking it out on Youtube. I can imagine how I'd feel if my love sings that to me at our nuptials... Perhaps I should ask her to marry me 1st???!!!!

Spring Cleaning

Hi everyone....

Seems that I have somewhat got my posts mixed up which doesn't reflect the objectives of the blog. As such, I'm doing some spring cleaning which may take a while and all the posts you have read before can be accessed at www.emowisdom.blogspot.com.

Until I get everything in order, apologies for any mess you find here and there on the blog...

Agape

xoxo

Holy Rosary Church, Brickfields

I resided in KL for a while without even realizing this church was situated where it was. It was only when it came out in a conversation with some friends last year that I came to know about it.

I was told that I could get a good view of the church if I were to take the Light Rapid Transit (LRT) train as it was located just before the Central Station.

One day when I had the chance to use the train, I had my eyes peeled for the church. And there it was, situated right below my nose unknown to me. As such I made a mental note to visit the church one day.

That one day manifested itself when I was in the area one Saturday afternoon. I decided then to pop by and attend the Mass there. When I got there, the ushers directed traffic to ensure that there was sufficient parking for everyone who was attending Mass.

I was a little surprised to see that the church was packed as it wasn't even 5pm yet. I later found out that the Mass starts at 5pm on Saturdays. This was then followed by Novena to Our Blessed Mother.

The church was an extremely beautiful one with unique architecture. I won't pretend to be an expert in that field but I like the look as it gives the church a traditional feel. Also catching my eyes were the statues of what I believe to be saints perched on the pillars of the church.

Adding to the surreal feeling of yesteryear was the use of Overhead Projector (OHP) to project readings, responses and prayers on the screen. As I have stated in an earlier entry, I loved Msgr Daniel who reminds you of a father figure who dispenses sound advice with a lot of kindness and love.

Would I return to this church? Well, I have been attending at least 5 or 6 Masses there since I showed up earlier this year. So, the answer is a resounding YES!!!!

The schedule for weekend Mass are as follows;

Saturday : 05:00pm (Eng)
Sunday : 08:30am (Eng)
: 10:30am (Eng)

St Joseph's Cathedral, Kuching

I attended Mass in this magnificent Cathedral a few times previously, though my last visit there was over 2 years ago.

I would have to say that this still remains my all time favorite church here in Malaysia. It's a pity that I'd have to fly across South China Sea to attend Mass there.

It's unique in the sense that the sanctuary area is "sunken". If I'm not wrong, the sanctuary is lower than the land surrounding the cathedral. And it also has an archbishop's throne on the right hand side of the sanctuary.

A few years earlier, I had the privilege to witness the Easter's Service of Light. Behind where the lectern usually stands, was a baptismal font or perhaps bath should be a more appropriate word to use.

And I watched initially in horror which turned to fascination and eventually admiration as the RCIA candidates were baptised by the Archbishop. Now why gamut of emotions you may ask? Well, horror as I realised that the font was approximately 3-4 feet deep. And the candidates were supposed to step into the font led to my fascination with the unfolding scene I was witnessing.

And admiration at the faith of the candidates. I don't think that it is the easiest of things to do. To step into a receptacle filled with water and to have to immerse yourself in the water 3 times before stepping out dripping wet and cold in view of a few thousand onlookers. I guess it is testament to the faith they profess which gave them the strength to do what they did.

Going back to the cathedral, it was one of the bigger ones that I have ever been to. I think that it should comfortably sit around 3 thousand without any problems. If there was any grouse I had with the place was that it was a bit stuffy as the fans were somewhat insufficient to circulate the air on a hot and humid day.

Another reason why I loved the cathedral was the architecture. I was extremely impressed with the inner ceilings of the cathedral which was made of wood pieces, much like parquet flooring. I was unable to obtain photos of the cathedral at present moment, so perhaps a trip down to Kuching is in order soon...

I also loved the Stations of the Cross which was integrated with the grilles which surrounds the cathedral. They were made up of what I believe to be acrylic pieces colored made in a mosaic of color and kaleidoscope which was a sight to behold. And it would be a remiss of me to mention the huge cross which hung over the Sanctuary floor suspended by some almost invisible cable.

A friend of mine told me that the cathedral was renovated in the mid 90s to have a day chapel where the daily Masses are celebrated. As such, a heavy curtain was installed and it would be drawn to set up an area behind the sanctuary for the celebration of daily Masses which would not normally attract a huge congregation.

Another sight that was breathtaking was the tabernacle. It is built in the shape of a traditional village house known locally as a "baruk". I believe it was built out of copper and stands on several stilts. Some hidden piping lets off a flow of water to a pool below the structure and a brass cross stands a top the tabernacle. The same friend of mine told me that the cross was once the processional cross pre-renovation.

I also found the church wardens/ushers to be extremely friendly as they distributed the hymnals and missals to the arriving congregation with a wide smile and sincere greetings. And it seems that a lot of effort was put in by the choir in preparation for Mass as they were singing expertly all the hymns, responses etc.

Overall, my regret was the fact that I didn't take the effort to obtain photos in my last visit there. I hope to be able to address that soon. If there are any readers out there who have photos they'd like to share on this topic, kindly send me a message.

Based on info obtained from www.kuchingcatholic.org.my Mass times are as follows on weekends;

Saturday : 06:00pm (Eng)
Sunday : 06:30am (Eng)
: 08:00am (Man)
: 09:30am (BM)
: 05:30pm (Eng)

St Michael's Church Ipoh

I was in Ipoh for the New Year as a quick getaway from the rush of the big city. Anyway, I had plans to celebrate the New Year dashed when my companio had to take a rain check.

So, on an impulse, I decided to run down to Ipoh for a short vacation. I didn't fancy driving considering the jam I may have to endure as such just packed a small backpack with enough stuff for a few days and ran down to KL Sentral looking for a train ticket. I was lucky enough to obtain a ticket at the last minute considering I didn't have a back up plan should they be none available.

I figured as it has been ages (more than 10 years at least) that I attended a Mass to welcome the new year, I guess this was a good time as any to end that streak...

Having reached Ipoh and getting myself checked into my abode for the duration of my trip, I set about walking around in search of dinner. As I have heard of St Michael's before from my friends, I figured that I should attend Mass there. Having obtained the telephone contact from the internet, I called to check if there were Masses scheduled for New Year's Eve.

I was pleasantly surprised to know that Mass would be celebrated at 11:45pm with a Christmas Carol presentation preceding it at 11:15pm. As I wasn't too sure of my bearings, I decided to grab a cab to get there early. I got to the church (which was surprisingly a short hop away from the hotel) at 10:30pm to soak in the atmosphere.

The church reminded me of a chapel back home where I normally go whenever I needed to spend some time in quiet reflection and prayer. It was similar in size thought I can really feel the sense of history as I stepped into the church.

I did some checking later on the net and found out via the church's website ( www.smcipoh.com/index.html) that the church was the first Christian church to be built in Ipoh in 1890. That was a whopping 120 years ago!!!

The present building however, began construction in 1893 and it took two years for it to be completed. And I loved the architecture. There were Chinese characters at the front porch which of course being a none Chinese reader, I was unable to decipher. I found out later via the website that the characters read, "God is the source of all truth".


This photo, obtained from the website showed the church before the renovation and restoration works. Even before all that was done, it certainly looked impressive. One of a kind I should say.

Anyway, being dark, I decided against taking any photos of the church. However, hearing that there was a session of Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament on New Year's Day followed by Benediction (which again incidentally, I haven't attended for donkey years), I decided that I'd be back the next day.

The Mass on New Year's eve was one of the most beautiful ones that I have attended. The choir's rendition of Christmas Carols were superb and the atmosphere was extremely homely and welcoming. I didn't feel like a stranger in the church with the many smiles proffered to me especially during the sign of peace.

Coming back the next day, I took several pictures of the church;


This was where the statue of our Blessed Mother was placed. I like the fact that the structure was built with Chinese architecture. It was certainly a wonderful fit.

This is of course the statue of St Michael the Archangel. He is of course the patron saint of the Church. Recently, I was forwarded one of those so called quizzes on Facebook to discover who was my guardian angel. Surprise surprise, it was St Michael... :) Not that I believe in all that mumbo jumbo though...


This was a photo I took of the front exterior of the church. You've got to admit that this is an impressive church which is quite extraordinary.


And this was how the church looked like from the main entrance. Loved the way the decorations were made. Unfortunately, I was unable to capture a picture of sunlight casting a shadow through the stained glass behind the altar. I'm sure that would have been captivatingly beautiful...

I left the church after Mass with a warm feeling within me. I vowed that I would be back someday (soon I hope) as this church actually felt as quaint as home.

Based on the website, weekend Masses scheduled are as follows;

Saturday : 07:00pm (Eng)
Sunday : 08:00am (Eng)
Sunday : 09:30am (Man)
Sunday : 05:30pm (Eng)

Church of Divine Mercy Shah Alam

Before I even dropped by this particular church, I was regaled with tales of the difficulties that the parishioners and the prime movers of this church had to undergo to have built this testimony of their unshakeable faith.

Curious as to what had transpired, I googled the church and found out via it's website (www.divinemercyshahalam.com) that the issue with regards to the setting up of this church dated back as far as 1977 when the then Archibishop of KL, the late Tan Sri Dominic Vendragon applied for a piece of land to construct a church in Shah Alam.

It took the state government an astonishing 14 years and 9 months to eventually allocate as piece of land at Section 24 Shah Alam via a State subsidiary corporation. This led to the start of construction in mid 1993 which was stopped by the town council a couple of months later. Exactly two years after construction started, work recommenced in June 1995 after submission of a fresh set of building plans.

Apparently, the State Executive Councillors (effectively state level ministerial cabinet) deemed that the site was unsuitable for a place of worship and as such the town council stopped all construction work, again, 9 months after it restarted in February 1996.

The state government then offered a new site for the construction of the new church opposite the Monforts Boys Town three years later, i.e. February 1999. It does make you wonder how would the incumbent government then feel should their salaries and allowances be held back for 3 years before being paid?

So as not to be viewed as a political activist or using this platform for politicking, I'll refrain from commenting on executive decisions over this matter, from this point forth anyway... March 2000 saw the town council approving plans for the new church only to have it withdrawn in December the same year and approving an alternate lot at an area where there was no infrastructure in place. This was of course rejected by the church.

The church decided to take the matter to the courts as they filed for a Judicial Review on the state government's decision in February 2001. This may or may not have been crucial in the state government offering another piece of land in Jalan Pemaju U1/15, Shah Alam. This offer was accepted by the church.

Construction started on December 8th 2003 and was completed almost a year later in November 2004. The Certificate of Fitness (CF) was issued for the church on July 3rd 2005 which led to the first ever Mass celebrated there on Friday, July 15th 2005.

The church was finally blessed in a Grand Opening, Mass and Blessing ceremony on September 10th 2005, presided by the Archbishop of KL, Datuk Murphy Pakiam.

Phew... Quite a struggle which the parishioners had to go through just to have a place to call their own. It does make me think back as to how lucky it was that back in my hometown, we were shown a lot of understanding and goodwill by the state government.

Anyway, going back to the church. My friend drove me down there as he was confident that I wasn't able to find the place even if I tried... I guess he knew what a good driver I am but unfortunately a lousy navigator.

We got to the church a little bit worried as an acquaintance t0ld us that the Saturday sunset mass could be in Tamil. Horrors of horrors should we have made the drive and not being able to understand the Mass.


While my designated driver went off in search of a parking space, I walked up and saw smiling faces everywhere. I have to admit that I was a bit awestruck with the church. I mean I have never seen a church as such. I was made to understand that the Cross was prohibited from being displayed by the local council. Anyone knows if there's any truth in that? Please let me know.

As I walked up the entrance, I was greeted a extremely friendly and welcome church warden/usher. She asked if it was my first ever visit and I said yes. I probably had that deer caught in the light look... :p

She offered to lead me to the pews but I told her that I was waiting for another couple of friends who were searching for a place to park. She gamely offered to reserve four seats for us, which I politely declined. She then asked me where I was from and we had a nice chat.

It struck me how nice people were in the church. I can see joyful looks in faces everywhere I turned. As I waited for the designated driver, I wondered off to the washroom. As I was looking for it, I was struck by the beautiful grotto (is that what it should be called or should it be shrine) just beside the church. Unfortunately, I didn't have a camera at that time to take any photos of it.

When we were reunited and ready for Mass, we made our way up to the upper floor where we had a grand view of the whole church. I was extremely impressed with the beautiful view that I was witnessing. And the choir was superb despite the fact that I knew none of the hymns sung that weekend.

I was told by a friend then that this being my first visit to a church, I should make 3 wishes... Don't know if that's superstitious or otherwise, but in prayer I make wishes via my petitions anyway, so I made 3 wishes which incidentally was granted by the following weekend... Spooky or God's mighty power and mercy?

Overall, I loved the church's atmosphere where you are made to feel very welcome. You can feel the enthusiasm of the congregation throughout the Mass. Being such a bad navigator, I haven't had the chance to go back there recently. If I can convince someone to come along to show me the way, I would definitely return for Mass more frequently...

Based on www.archway.org.my. Mass times for weekends are as follows;

Saturday : 06:00pm (Eng)
Sunday : 08:00am (Eng)
: 11:15am (Eng)
1st Sunday : 09:45am (BM)
3rd Sunday : 09:45am (Man)
: 05:30pm (Tam)
2nd & 4th Sunday : 05:30pm (Eng)

Stations of the Cross at SFA, Cheras

As promised, I am posting photos of the 14 stations of the Cross that can be found at St Francis of Assisi, Cheras. The photos as well as the bible quotes were obtained from the church's website which can be accessed at http://www.sfa.org.my/index.html.

The First Station:

Jesus is condemned to Death

"He was insulted and did not retaliate with insults; when he suffered he made no threats. Instead he entrusted himself to him who judges justly... Through his wounds we have been healed" (I Peter 2.23-24)

The Second Station:

Jesus accepts His Cross

"His state was divine, yet he did not cling to his equality with God, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a slave, and became as men are". (Phil. 6-7)

The Third Station:

Jesus falls for the first time

"But Jesus said to them (James and John), Have you the strength to drink of the cup I am to drink of, to be baptised with the baptism I am to be baptised with? They said to him, We have". (Mark 10:38-39)

The Fourth Station:

Jesus meets His Mother

"Love is as strong as death" (The Song of Songs 8.6)

The Fifth Station:

Simon helps Jesus to carry the Cross

Carry each other's burden and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ. (Galatians 6.2)

The Sixth Station:

Veronica wipes the face of Jesus

"Your face, Lord, I seek. Do not hide your face from me." (Psalm 27.8-9)

The Seventh Station:

Jesus falls the second time

"My palate is drier than a potsherd and my tongue is stuck to my jaw. I am lying in the dust of death". (Psalm 22.16)

The Eighth Station:

Jesus consoles the women of Jerusalem

"Daughters of Jerusalem, weep not for me but for yourselves and for your children". (Lk. 23:28)

The Ninth Station:

Jesus falls a third time

"In my own body I make up what is still be to undergone by Christ for the sake of his body, which is the Church". (Colossians 1:24)

The Tenth Station:

Jesus is stripped of His garments

"There they are staring at me, gloating; they divide my garments among them as cast lots for my clothing". (Psalm 22: 17-18)


The Eleventh Station:

Jesus is nailed to the Cross

"Today you will be with me in Paradise". (Lk. 23:43)



Twelfth Station:

Jesus dies on the Cross

"Father, into your hands, I commend my spirit" (Lk. 23:46)


Thirteenth Station:

Jesus is taken down from the Cross

"I am the Lord's servant, let it be done as you have said". (Lk. 1:38)


Fourteenth Station:

Jesus is laid in the tomb

"If we become united with Christ through a death like His, we will certainly be united with Him in His resurrection". (Roman 6:5)

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I have attended a number of Stations of the Cross recitations. Most recently, prior to the Good Friday service. And not many would have probably made a lasting impression on me honestly. Previously, the stations of the Cross that was recited at a pilgrimage site that was designated when we celebrated the Jubilee Year in 2000 was probably the one that may have stirred some emotions.

However, these photos of the stations which is quite graphic and admittedly three dimensional and life sized as opposed to the ones we usually see, had touched me emotionally. I would try my best to participate in the Stations of the Cross there during the next Lenten season.

St Francis of Assisi Cheras

Well, I attended Mass here once. What struck me when I got there was the fact that it was situated on top of a small hill.

And that wasn't all. I noticed that along the road up to the church was lined up with almost life sized statues. At first glance, I didn't notice it but upon being informed by my companion I realized that the statues depicted the stations of the Cross.

Unfortunately, as it was getting dark, I was unable to check out the statues up close. I was told by my companion that the stations of the cross there was known locally as Gethsemane. More on the stations of the cross in another posting.

Upon entering the church, a sense of familiarity came over me. It was an extremely simple church with very little extras. Now don't get me wrong... I get a sense of a congregation fiercely faithful and proud of this church. A feeling I can identify to as I feel the same whenever I'm back home at my own parish.

Also, this church reminds me of the chapel of St Peter where I attended the funeral service of my grandparents. They passed away within 2 years of each other. My grandmother from old age having beaten the dreaded cancer while my grandfather a week shy of granny's 2nd anniversary, of a broken heart I suspected.

Anyway, the structure of the church resembles that of the chapel. I remembered as I walked in I was fascinated with the architecture.

We returned to the church a few weeks later to attend the sunset mass but ended up running down to Sacred Heart Church, Jalan Peel as the church celebrated the feast of St Francis of Assisi that Saturday. While I was disappointed to have not attended Mass there, it led me to my visiting my favorite church here in KL. (You can check out the story in the earlier posting on Church of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, Jalan Peel)

As for "Gethsemane", I'll post the pics on a separate post. If there's anyone out there who knows more about the statues commemorating the Stations of the Cross, do drop me a line. Would love to know more about it...

Mass times are as follows

Saturday - 07:00pm (Eng)
Sunday - 07:30am (Tam)
- 09:30am (Eng)
- 11:30am (Man)
Note: Second Sunday of the month, BM Mass is celebrated at 09:30am.

Love... Actually...

It was said that the greatest of all is love...

I just happened to catch the movie Love Actually on DVD. Since first seeing it some 5-6 years back, it probably ranks supreme in my favourite list. (You see I'm a lousy old romantic at heart despite everything...)

I caught some parts which despite the humor and simplicity of what was said, was priceless... A bit like the Mastercard adverts...

Sorry if it doesn't conform too much with the blog objectives. I thought that as we do try to inculcate a profound appreciation for those around us in CHOICE, loving someone in whatever we do constitute a major part of it...

Hope you enjoy the ones I feature in here:

Daniel : Tell her that you love her.
Sam : No way! Anyway, they fly tonight.
Daniel : Even better! Sam, you've got nothin' to lose, and you'll always regret it if you don't! I never told your mom enough. I should have told her everyday because she was perfect everyday. You've seen the films, kiddo. It ain't over 'til its over.

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Mark's word were written on cardboard as she shows them to Juliet

With any luck, by next year
I'll be going out with one of these girls.
(Mark shows Juliet photos of super models)
But for now, let me say
Without hope or agenda
Just because it's Christmas
And at Christmas you tell the truth
To me, you are perfect
And my wasted heart will love you
Until you look like this.
(Mark flashes the photo of a mummy)
Merry Christmas.

As Mark walks away, Juliet runs up to him & kissed him before walking back to the house.

Mark then says, "Enough, enough now"

Note: Juliet is married to Mark's best friend & he has a crush on her.

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Daniel : So what's the problem, Sammy-o? Is it just Mum, or is it something else? Maybe... school - are you being bullied? Or is it something worse? Can you give me any clues at all?
Sam : You really want to know?
Daniel :I really want to know.
Sam : Even though you won't be able to do anything to help?
Daniel :Even if that's the case, yeah.
Sam : Okay. Well, the truth is... actually... I'm in love.
Daniel :Sorry?
Sam : I know I should be thinking about Mum all the time, and I am. But the truth is, I'm in love and I was before she died, and there's nothing I can do about it.
Daniel : Aren't you a bit young to be in love?
Sam : No.
Daniel : Oh, well, okay... right. Well, I mean, I'm a little relieved.
Sam : Why?
Daniel : Well, because I thought it would be something worse.
Sam : Worse than the total agony of being in love?
Daniel : Oh. No, you're right. Yeah, total agony.

Sam is Daniel's step son (9 years old I think), whose mother Joanna passed away a week earlier after an illness.

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Billy Mack : When I was young and successful, I was greedy and foolish, and now I'm left with no one. Wrinkled and alone.

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Jamie : It's my favorite time of day, driving you. (in English)
Aurelia : It's the saddest part of my day, leaving you. (in Portugese)
Neither understood each other's language

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Daniel : You know, Sammy, I'm sure she's unique and extraordinary, but... the general wisdom is that, in the end, there isn't just one person for each of us.
Sam : There was for Kate (Winslet) and Leo (Di Caprio) . There was for you. There is for me.
(holds up a finger)
Sam : She's "the one".
Daniel : Fair enough.

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Prime Minister : Whenever I get gloomy with the state of the world, I think about the arrivals gate at Heathrow Airport. General opinion's starting to make out that we live in a world of hatred and greed, but I don't see that. It seems to me that love is everywhere. Often, it's not particularly dignified or newsworthy, but it's always there - fathers and sons, mothers and daughters, husbands and wives, boyfriends, girlfriends, old friends. When the planes hit the Twin Towers, as far as I know, none of the phone calls from the people on board were messages of hate or revenge - they were all messages of love. If you look for it, I've got a sneaking suspicion... love actually is all around.

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This quote didn't come from the movie, it was from somewhere I couldn't remember but has remained imprinted in my head since I first heard it...

Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want him/her to, it doesn't mean that he/she doesn't love you with all he/she has....

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It's pretty difficult to obtain the VCD/DVD for this movie (I should know... Took me some 4 years of hunting to find it... The other copy was bought from ebay) here in Malaysia. An outlet owner actually told me that her supplies are reserved even before they were sent to her.

So if you want a copy of it, I'd be happy to pass you a copy(burned copy... not original :p)... If you believe in love conquers all, I think this movie would be perfect for you..

BTW, if you have subscribed to Astro's Movie Channel, you may want to check the schedules there for this movie. I first saw it on Astro many years back and had come across shown from time to time.

Church of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, Kuala Lumpur

I attended Mass here several times before. In all honesty, this is my favorite church in the whole of KL and it's vicinity.

Unfortunately, I was unable to grab a photo of the church via the internet. Perhaps when I drop by there the next time, I'll take the photo on my mobile phone.

My first visit there was on a Saturday before I scooted off to Genting Highlands to catch a concert on Sunday. My companion was somewhat reluctant to attend Mass at this church as she told me parking was a headache considering that spaces are limited.

However, due to the hour and the fact that we both decided to go up to Genting on an express bus early next morning, she relented and we ended up attending Mass there. Unfortunately, when we arrived and finally got a parking space some 100m away, the Mass has already started. We ended up sitting at the open area between the church and a 3 or 4 story building.

I enjoyed the Mass very much that weekend as the familiarity with the songs as well as the sung responses reminded me of home. When the Mass ended, the parishioners were all invited to join in a fellowship held by the parish. Can't remember what the occasion was though. We both skipped that and ended up having Bak Kut Teh instead for dinner nearby... :p

I have since returned there a couple of time. The parking issue needs to be addressed still though...

Based on the info obtained from www.archway.org.my the Mass schedule are as follows:

Saturday - 06:30pm (Eng)
Sunday - 07:30am (Tamil)
- 09:00am (Eng)
- 11:00am (Man)

St John's Cathedral, Kuala Lumpur

The first ever mass I attended in KL was at St John's Cathedral a few years back. I recalled arriving there at about 9 plus on a Sunday morning.

The outer side of the cathedral along the walkway was filled with traders hawking their wares. If I am not mistaken, most if not all of them were Filipinos. I didn't stop to check them out but instead went straight into the cathedral where I saw that the next Mass would be at 10:30am.

Having taken a seat, I was somewhat surprised when minutes later, an announcement was made and then everyone stood up. Apparently, it was a Mass conducted in Tagalog for the benefit of the Filipinos. I went through the motions as excerpts of the Mass was in English as the priest was a local.

Due to it's close proximity to the city centre and easy accessibility due to the myriad of public transportation systems, it remains a popular choice amongst the city folks... Not my personal favourite though... :)

As far as I know, weekend Mass schedule are as follows:

Saturday - 06:30pm (Novena at 06:00pm) (Eng)
Sunday - 08:00am (Eng)
- 10:30am (Eng)
- 06:00pm (Eng)

Why The Animosity??

Note: This entry was posted on Friday, January 8th when news of the attacks were filtering in. It was an extremely uncomfortable time as I recalled. I attended Novena and Sunset Mass on Saturday and found that the church was somewhat less filled than usual.

"Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you..." Matt 5:44

I'm moving away from my normal musings as what I saw over the news today saddened me... 3 churches were attacked with molotov cocktails today... And one of which was the Assumption Church, Petaling Jaya...

Now this church holds a special place in my heart as it was there that I attended my first service with her as a so-called couple :)

It is sad that we allow emotions to get the better of us... To think that such retaliations and acts of violence would make things better or reverse the court's decisions...

It is also sad to think that one word could cause all this hoo-ha... To think that such a powerful word exist that it can shake the tenets of our faith... That it can cause so much division and discord amongst a people that share this nation...

"Father forgive them for they know not what they are doing..." Luke 23:34

It is a difficult time to be a Christian, not to mention Catholic in these times... There are times when I wonder if the word was worth its' weight with all this trouble brewing and seemingly close to boiling over...

Are we to be assured of our safety when we go to worship? Can we practise our faith without interference and fear? Would our own faith be now shaken in this hour of uncertainty and peril?

Can we not treat all and one with the same standards we measure ourself against? Allow everyone to practise their faith freely as I believe that the Almighty teaches each and everyone of us to do good upon others...

It does show I guess a certain degree of hypocrisy (if that is the right word) with the actions of the government... The appeal against the decision was filed most immediately without much of a pause for a breath...

In April last year, two journalist from Al-Islam entered the church and in their 'investigative' pursuit, they have desecrated what we Catholics believe to be holy... And up until today, these two journalists remain free without any charges brought upon them...

Forgive me Datuk Seri Home Minister? Did they not do something which could have jeopardise relations between Muslims and Catholics in the country? Should the book not be thrown at them?

I will not pretend to be learned in matters of the law or the religion... After all, I'm am but a normal human being, a sinner as well as a learner... But I hope we all take a step back and reflect on our actions...

Would what we are doing right now be what the Almighty expects of us? I can remember there was a time where this phrase was widely pasted as bumper stickers some years back... I'm however compelled to use the version said by Katherine Heigl in an episode of Grey's Anatomy, " What would Jesus freaking do???!!! "

"... Forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sinned against us..." excerpt from the Lord's prayer...

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Upon some reflection since posting this particular thoughts last night (Tues) I have decided that perhaps it would be good to stress that the issue where the Blessed Sacrament was defiled has been resolved.

Recently, the charges against the two journalist was dropped by the judiciary. In the aftermath of that announcement, the Archbishop of KL, Tan Sri Murphy Pakiam had openly called for the publishers as well as the journalists involved to apologize to the Catholic church.

The apology was posted on the magazine's website on March 6th as well as in the April 2010 issue of the magazine. Tan Sri Murphy gracefully accepted the apology and has stated that he considered the matter to be closed.

As such, as Catholics, I believe that we need to allow whatever personal hatred or anger over this issue to pass. It was said that to err is human, to forgive divine. Let us not harbor any further resentment over this matter any longer.

I may have erred in posting my thoughts which admittedly was written with indignation months ago, but having done so I believe that the post should remain as a reminder of our failings as humans.

Posted: April 28th, 12:11pm