St Michael's Church Ipoh

I was in Ipoh for the New Year as a quick getaway from the rush of the big city. Anyway, I had plans to celebrate the New Year dashed when my companio had to take a rain check.

So, on an impulse, I decided to run down to Ipoh for a short vacation. I didn't fancy driving considering the jam I may have to endure as such just packed a small backpack with enough stuff for a few days and ran down to KL Sentral looking for a train ticket. I was lucky enough to obtain a ticket at the last minute considering I didn't have a back up plan should they be none available.

I figured as it has been ages (more than 10 years at least) that I attended a Mass to welcome the new year, I guess this was a good time as any to end that streak...

Having reached Ipoh and getting myself checked into my abode for the duration of my trip, I set about walking around in search of dinner. As I have heard of St Michael's before from my friends, I figured that I should attend Mass there. Having obtained the telephone contact from the internet, I called to check if there were Masses scheduled for New Year's Eve.

I was pleasantly surprised to know that Mass would be celebrated at 11:45pm with a Christmas Carol presentation preceding it at 11:15pm. As I wasn't too sure of my bearings, I decided to grab a cab to get there early. I got to the church (which was surprisingly a short hop away from the hotel) at 10:30pm to soak in the atmosphere.

The church reminded me of a chapel back home where I normally go whenever I needed to spend some time in quiet reflection and prayer. It was similar in size thought I can really feel the sense of history as I stepped into the church.

I did some checking later on the net and found out via the church's website ( www.smcipoh.com/index.html) that the church was the first Christian church to be built in Ipoh in 1890. That was a whopping 120 years ago!!!

The present building however, began construction in 1893 and it took two years for it to be completed. And I loved the architecture. There were Chinese characters at the front porch which of course being a none Chinese reader, I was unable to decipher. I found out later via the website that the characters read, "God is the source of all truth".


This photo, obtained from the website showed the church before the renovation and restoration works. Even before all that was done, it certainly looked impressive. One of a kind I should say.

Anyway, being dark, I decided against taking any photos of the church. However, hearing that there was a session of Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament on New Year's Day followed by Benediction (which again incidentally, I haven't attended for donkey years), I decided that I'd be back the next day.

The Mass on New Year's eve was one of the most beautiful ones that I have attended. The choir's rendition of Christmas Carols were superb and the atmosphere was extremely homely and welcoming. I didn't feel like a stranger in the church with the many smiles proffered to me especially during the sign of peace.

Coming back the next day, I took several pictures of the church;


This was where the statue of our Blessed Mother was placed. I like the fact that the structure was built with Chinese architecture. It was certainly a wonderful fit.

This is of course the statue of St Michael the Archangel. He is of course the patron saint of the Church. Recently, I was forwarded one of those so called quizzes on Facebook to discover who was my guardian angel. Surprise surprise, it was St Michael... :) Not that I believe in all that mumbo jumbo though...


This was a photo I took of the front exterior of the church. You've got to admit that this is an impressive church which is quite extraordinary.


And this was how the church looked like from the main entrance. Loved the way the decorations were made. Unfortunately, I was unable to capture a picture of sunlight casting a shadow through the stained glass behind the altar. I'm sure that would have been captivatingly beautiful...

I left the church after Mass with a warm feeling within me. I vowed that I would be back someday (soon I hope) as this church actually felt as quaint as home.

Based on the website, weekend Masses scheduled are as follows;

Saturday : 07:00pm (Eng)
Sunday : 08:00am (Eng)
Sunday : 09:30am (Man)
Sunday : 05:30pm (Eng)

Church of Divine Mercy Shah Alam

Before I even dropped by this particular church, I was regaled with tales of the difficulties that the parishioners and the prime movers of this church had to undergo to have built this testimony of their unshakeable faith.

Curious as to what had transpired, I googled the church and found out via it's website (www.divinemercyshahalam.com) that the issue with regards to the setting up of this church dated back as far as 1977 when the then Archibishop of KL, the late Tan Sri Dominic Vendragon applied for a piece of land to construct a church in Shah Alam.

It took the state government an astonishing 14 years and 9 months to eventually allocate as piece of land at Section 24 Shah Alam via a State subsidiary corporation. This led to the start of construction in mid 1993 which was stopped by the town council a couple of months later. Exactly two years after construction started, work recommenced in June 1995 after submission of a fresh set of building plans.

Apparently, the State Executive Councillors (effectively state level ministerial cabinet) deemed that the site was unsuitable for a place of worship and as such the town council stopped all construction work, again, 9 months after it restarted in February 1996.

The state government then offered a new site for the construction of the new church opposite the Monforts Boys Town three years later, i.e. February 1999. It does make you wonder how would the incumbent government then feel should their salaries and allowances be held back for 3 years before being paid?

So as not to be viewed as a political activist or using this platform for politicking, I'll refrain from commenting on executive decisions over this matter, from this point forth anyway... March 2000 saw the town council approving plans for the new church only to have it withdrawn in December the same year and approving an alternate lot at an area where there was no infrastructure in place. This was of course rejected by the church.

The church decided to take the matter to the courts as they filed for a Judicial Review on the state government's decision in February 2001. This may or may not have been crucial in the state government offering another piece of land in Jalan Pemaju U1/15, Shah Alam. This offer was accepted by the church.

Construction started on December 8th 2003 and was completed almost a year later in November 2004. The Certificate of Fitness (CF) was issued for the church on July 3rd 2005 which led to the first ever Mass celebrated there on Friday, July 15th 2005.

The church was finally blessed in a Grand Opening, Mass and Blessing ceremony on September 10th 2005, presided by the Archbishop of KL, Datuk Murphy Pakiam.

Phew... Quite a struggle which the parishioners had to go through just to have a place to call their own. It does make me think back as to how lucky it was that back in my hometown, we were shown a lot of understanding and goodwill by the state government.

Anyway, going back to the church. My friend drove me down there as he was confident that I wasn't able to find the place even if I tried... I guess he knew what a good driver I am but unfortunately a lousy navigator.

We got to the church a little bit worried as an acquaintance t0ld us that the Saturday sunset mass could be in Tamil. Horrors of horrors should we have made the drive and not being able to understand the Mass.


While my designated driver went off in search of a parking space, I walked up and saw smiling faces everywhere. I have to admit that I was a bit awestruck with the church. I mean I have never seen a church as such. I was made to understand that the Cross was prohibited from being displayed by the local council. Anyone knows if there's any truth in that? Please let me know.

As I walked up the entrance, I was greeted a extremely friendly and welcome church warden/usher. She asked if it was my first ever visit and I said yes. I probably had that deer caught in the light look... :p

She offered to lead me to the pews but I told her that I was waiting for another couple of friends who were searching for a place to park. She gamely offered to reserve four seats for us, which I politely declined. She then asked me where I was from and we had a nice chat.

It struck me how nice people were in the church. I can see joyful looks in faces everywhere I turned. As I waited for the designated driver, I wondered off to the washroom. As I was looking for it, I was struck by the beautiful grotto (is that what it should be called or should it be shrine) just beside the church. Unfortunately, I didn't have a camera at that time to take any photos of it.

When we were reunited and ready for Mass, we made our way up to the upper floor where we had a grand view of the whole church. I was extremely impressed with the beautiful view that I was witnessing. And the choir was superb despite the fact that I knew none of the hymns sung that weekend.

I was told by a friend then that this being my first visit to a church, I should make 3 wishes... Don't know if that's superstitious or otherwise, but in prayer I make wishes via my petitions anyway, so I made 3 wishes which incidentally was granted by the following weekend... Spooky or God's mighty power and mercy?

Overall, I loved the church's atmosphere where you are made to feel very welcome. You can feel the enthusiasm of the congregation throughout the Mass. Being such a bad navigator, I haven't had the chance to go back there recently. If I can convince someone to come along to show me the way, I would definitely return for Mass more frequently...

Based on www.archway.org.my. Mass times for weekends are as follows;

Saturday : 06:00pm (Eng)
Sunday : 08:00am (Eng)
: 11:15am (Eng)
1st Sunday : 09:45am (BM)
3rd Sunday : 09:45am (Man)
: 05:30pm (Tam)
2nd & 4th Sunday : 05:30pm (Eng)

Stations of the Cross at SFA, Cheras

As promised, I am posting photos of the 14 stations of the Cross that can be found at St Francis of Assisi, Cheras. The photos as well as the bible quotes were obtained from the church's website which can be accessed at http://www.sfa.org.my/index.html.

The First Station:

Jesus is condemned to Death

"He was insulted and did not retaliate with insults; when he suffered he made no threats. Instead he entrusted himself to him who judges justly... Through his wounds we have been healed" (I Peter 2.23-24)

The Second Station:

Jesus accepts His Cross

"His state was divine, yet he did not cling to his equality with God, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a slave, and became as men are". (Phil. 6-7)

The Third Station:

Jesus falls for the first time

"But Jesus said to them (James and John), Have you the strength to drink of the cup I am to drink of, to be baptised with the baptism I am to be baptised with? They said to him, We have". (Mark 10:38-39)

The Fourth Station:

Jesus meets His Mother

"Love is as strong as death" (The Song of Songs 8.6)

The Fifth Station:

Simon helps Jesus to carry the Cross

Carry each other's burden and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ. (Galatians 6.2)

The Sixth Station:

Veronica wipes the face of Jesus

"Your face, Lord, I seek. Do not hide your face from me." (Psalm 27.8-9)

The Seventh Station:

Jesus falls the second time

"My palate is drier than a potsherd and my tongue is stuck to my jaw. I am lying in the dust of death". (Psalm 22.16)

The Eighth Station:

Jesus consoles the women of Jerusalem

"Daughters of Jerusalem, weep not for me but for yourselves and for your children". (Lk. 23:28)

The Ninth Station:

Jesus falls a third time

"In my own body I make up what is still be to undergone by Christ for the sake of his body, which is the Church". (Colossians 1:24)

The Tenth Station:

Jesus is stripped of His garments

"There they are staring at me, gloating; they divide my garments among them as cast lots for my clothing". (Psalm 22: 17-18)


The Eleventh Station:

Jesus is nailed to the Cross

"Today you will be with me in Paradise". (Lk. 23:43)



Twelfth Station:

Jesus dies on the Cross

"Father, into your hands, I commend my spirit" (Lk. 23:46)


Thirteenth Station:

Jesus is taken down from the Cross

"I am the Lord's servant, let it be done as you have said". (Lk. 1:38)


Fourteenth Station:

Jesus is laid in the tomb

"If we become united with Christ through a death like His, we will certainly be united with Him in His resurrection". (Roman 6:5)

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I have attended a number of Stations of the Cross recitations. Most recently, prior to the Good Friday service. And not many would have probably made a lasting impression on me honestly. Previously, the stations of the Cross that was recited at a pilgrimage site that was designated when we celebrated the Jubilee Year in 2000 was probably the one that may have stirred some emotions.

However, these photos of the stations which is quite graphic and admittedly three dimensional and life sized as opposed to the ones we usually see, had touched me emotionally. I would try my best to participate in the Stations of the Cross there during the next Lenten season.

St Francis of Assisi Cheras

Well, I attended Mass here once. What struck me when I got there was the fact that it was situated on top of a small hill.

And that wasn't all. I noticed that along the road up to the church was lined up with almost life sized statues. At first glance, I didn't notice it but upon being informed by my companion I realized that the statues depicted the stations of the Cross.

Unfortunately, as it was getting dark, I was unable to check out the statues up close. I was told by my companion that the stations of the cross there was known locally as Gethsemane. More on the stations of the cross in another posting.

Upon entering the church, a sense of familiarity came over me. It was an extremely simple church with very little extras. Now don't get me wrong... I get a sense of a congregation fiercely faithful and proud of this church. A feeling I can identify to as I feel the same whenever I'm back home at my own parish.

Also, this church reminds me of the chapel of St Peter where I attended the funeral service of my grandparents. They passed away within 2 years of each other. My grandmother from old age having beaten the dreaded cancer while my grandfather a week shy of granny's 2nd anniversary, of a broken heart I suspected.

Anyway, the structure of the church resembles that of the chapel. I remembered as I walked in I was fascinated with the architecture.

We returned to the church a few weeks later to attend the sunset mass but ended up running down to Sacred Heart Church, Jalan Peel as the church celebrated the feast of St Francis of Assisi that Saturday. While I was disappointed to have not attended Mass there, it led me to my visiting my favorite church here in KL. (You can check out the story in the earlier posting on Church of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, Jalan Peel)

As for "Gethsemane", I'll post the pics on a separate post. If there's anyone out there who knows more about the statues commemorating the Stations of the Cross, do drop me a line. Would love to know more about it...

Mass times are as follows

Saturday - 07:00pm (Eng)
Sunday - 07:30am (Tam)
- 09:30am (Eng)
- 11:30am (Man)
Note: Second Sunday of the month, BM Mass is celebrated at 09:30am.

Love... Actually...

It was said that the greatest of all is love...

I just happened to catch the movie Love Actually on DVD. Since first seeing it some 5-6 years back, it probably ranks supreme in my favourite list. (You see I'm a lousy old romantic at heart despite everything...)

I caught some parts which despite the humor and simplicity of what was said, was priceless... A bit like the Mastercard adverts...

Sorry if it doesn't conform too much with the blog objectives. I thought that as we do try to inculcate a profound appreciation for those around us in CHOICE, loving someone in whatever we do constitute a major part of it...

Hope you enjoy the ones I feature in here:

Daniel : Tell her that you love her.
Sam : No way! Anyway, they fly tonight.
Daniel : Even better! Sam, you've got nothin' to lose, and you'll always regret it if you don't! I never told your mom enough. I should have told her everyday because she was perfect everyday. You've seen the films, kiddo. It ain't over 'til its over.

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Mark's word were written on cardboard as she shows them to Juliet

With any luck, by next year
I'll be going out with one of these girls.
(Mark shows Juliet photos of super models)
But for now, let me say
Without hope or agenda
Just because it's Christmas
And at Christmas you tell the truth
To me, you are perfect
And my wasted heart will love you
Until you look like this.
(Mark flashes the photo of a mummy)
Merry Christmas.

As Mark walks away, Juliet runs up to him & kissed him before walking back to the house.

Mark then says, "Enough, enough now"

Note: Juliet is married to Mark's best friend & he has a crush on her.

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Daniel : So what's the problem, Sammy-o? Is it just Mum, or is it something else? Maybe... school - are you being bullied? Or is it something worse? Can you give me any clues at all?
Sam : You really want to know?
Daniel :I really want to know.
Sam : Even though you won't be able to do anything to help?
Daniel :Even if that's the case, yeah.
Sam : Okay. Well, the truth is... actually... I'm in love.
Daniel :Sorry?
Sam : I know I should be thinking about Mum all the time, and I am. But the truth is, I'm in love and I was before she died, and there's nothing I can do about it.
Daniel : Aren't you a bit young to be in love?
Sam : No.
Daniel : Oh, well, okay... right. Well, I mean, I'm a little relieved.
Sam : Why?
Daniel : Well, because I thought it would be something worse.
Sam : Worse than the total agony of being in love?
Daniel : Oh. No, you're right. Yeah, total agony.

Sam is Daniel's step son (9 years old I think), whose mother Joanna passed away a week earlier after an illness.

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Billy Mack : When I was young and successful, I was greedy and foolish, and now I'm left with no one. Wrinkled and alone.

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Jamie : It's my favorite time of day, driving you. (in English)
Aurelia : It's the saddest part of my day, leaving you. (in Portugese)
Neither understood each other's language

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Daniel : You know, Sammy, I'm sure she's unique and extraordinary, but... the general wisdom is that, in the end, there isn't just one person for each of us.
Sam : There was for Kate (Winslet) and Leo (Di Caprio) . There was for you. There is for me.
(holds up a finger)
Sam : She's "the one".
Daniel : Fair enough.

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Prime Minister : Whenever I get gloomy with the state of the world, I think about the arrivals gate at Heathrow Airport. General opinion's starting to make out that we live in a world of hatred and greed, but I don't see that. It seems to me that love is everywhere. Often, it's not particularly dignified or newsworthy, but it's always there - fathers and sons, mothers and daughters, husbands and wives, boyfriends, girlfriends, old friends. When the planes hit the Twin Towers, as far as I know, none of the phone calls from the people on board were messages of hate or revenge - they were all messages of love. If you look for it, I've got a sneaking suspicion... love actually is all around.

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This quote didn't come from the movie, it was from somewhere I couldn't remember but has remained imprinted in my head since I first heard it...

Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want him/her to, it doesn't mean that he/she doesn't love you with all he/she has....

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It's pretty difficult to obtain the VCD/DVD for this movie (I should know... Took me some 4 years of hunting to find it... The other copy was bought from ebay) here in Malaysia. An outlet owner actually told me that her supplies are reserved even before they were sent to her.

So if you want a copy of it, I'd be happy to pass you a copy(burned copy... not original :p)... If you believe in love conquers all, I think this movie would be perfect for you..

BTW, if you have subscribed to Astro's Movie Channel, you may want to check the schedules there for this movie. I first saw it on Astro many years back and had come across shown from time to time.

Church of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, Kuala Lumpur

I attended Mass here several times before. In all honesty, this is my favorite church in the whole of KL and it's vicinity.

Unfortunately, I was unable to grab a photo of the church via the internet. Perhaps when I drop by there the next time, I'll take the photo on my mobile phone.

My first visit there was on a Saturday before I scooted off to Genting Highlands to catch a concert on Sunday. My companion was somewhat reluctant to attend Mass at this church as she told me parking was a headache considering that spaces are limited.

However, due to the hour and the fact that we both decided to go up to Genting on an express bus early next morning, she relented and we ended up attending Mass there. Unfortunately, when we arrived and finally got a parking space some 100m away, the Mass has already started. We ended up sitting at the open area between the church and a 3 or 4 story building.

I enjoyed the Mass very much that weekend as the familiarity with the songs as well as the sung responses reminded me of home. When the Mass ended, the parishioners were all invited to join in a fellowship held by the parish. Can't remember what the occasion was though. We both skipped that and ended up having Bak Kut Teh instead for dinner nearby... :p

I have since returned there a couple of time. The parking issue needs to be addressed still though...

Based on the info obtained from www.archway.org.my the Mass schedule are as follows:

Saturday - 06:30pm (Eng)
Sunday - 07:30am (Tamil)
- 09:00am (Eng)
- 11:00am (Man)

St John's Cathedral, Kuala Lumpur

The first ever mass I attended in KL was at St John's Cathedral a few years back. I recalled arriving there at about 9 plus on a Sunday morning.

The outer side of the cathedral along the walkway was filled with traders hawking their wares. If I am not mistaken, most if not all of them were Filipinos. I didn't stop to check them out but instead went straight into the cathedral where I saw that the next Mass would be at 10:30am.

Having taken a seat, I was somewhat surprised when minutes later, an announcement was made and then everyone stood up. Apparently, it was a Mass conducted in Tagalog for the benefit of the Filipinos. I went through the motions as excerpts of the Mass was in English as the priest was a local.

Due to it's close proximity to the city centre and easy accessibility due to the myriad of public transportation systems, it remains a popular choice amongst the city folks... Not my personal favourite though... :)

As far as I know, weekend Mass schedule are as follows:

Saturday - 06:30pm (Novena at 06:00pm) (Eng)
Sunday - 08:00am (Eng)
- 10:30am (Eng)
- 06:00pm (Eng)

Why The Animosity??

Note: This entry was posted on Friday, January 8th when news of the attacks were filtering in. It was an extremely uncomfortable time as I recalled. I attended Novena and Sunset Mass on Saturday and found that the church was somewhat less filled than usual.

"Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you..." Matt 5:44

I'm moving away from my normal musings as what I saw over the news today saddened me... 3 churches were attacked with molotov cocktails today... And one of which was the Assumption Church, Petaling Jaya...

Now this church holds a special place in my heart as it was there that I attended my first service with her as a so-called couple :)

It is sad that we allow emotions to get the better of us... To think that such retaliations and acts of violence would make things better or reverse the court's decisions...

It is also sad to think that one word could cause all this hoo-ha... To think that such a powerful word exist that it can shake the tenets of our faith... That it can cause so much division and discord amongst a people that share this nation...

"Father forgive them for they know not what they are doing..." Luke 23:34

It is a difficult time to be a Christian, not to mention Catholic in these times... There are times when I wonder if the word was worth its' weight with all this trouble brewing and seemingly close to boiling over...

Are we to be assured of our safety when we go to worship? Can we practise our faith without interference and fear? Would our own faith be now shaken in this hour of uncertainty and peril?

Can we not treat all and one with the same standards we measure ourself against? Allow everyone to practise their faith freely as I believe that the Almighty teaches each and everyone of us to do good upon others...

It does show I guess a certain degree of hypocrisy (if that is the right word) with the actions of the government... The appeal against the decision was filed most immediately without much of a pause for a breath...

In April last year, two journalist from Al-Islam entered the church and in their 'investigative' pursuit, they have desecrated what we Catholics believe to be holy... And up until today, these two journalists remain free without any charges brought upon them...

Forgive me Datuk Seri Home Minister? Did they not do something which could have jeopardise relations between Muslims and Catholics in the country? Should the book not be thrown at them?

I will not pretend to be learned in matters of the law or the religion... After all, I'm am but a normal human being, a sinner as well as a learner... But I hope we all take a step back and reflect on our actions...

Would what we are doing right now be what the Almighty expects of us? I can remember there was a time where this phrase was widely pasted as bumper stickers some years back... I'm however compelled to use the version said by Katherine Heigl in an episode of Grey's Anatomy, " What would Jesus freaking do???!!! "

"... Forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sinned against us..." excerpt from the Lord's prayer...

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Upon some reflection since posting this particular thoughts last night (Tues) I have decided that perhaps it would be good to stress that the issue where the Blessed Sacrament was defiled has been resolved.

Recently, the charges against the two journalist was dropped by the judiciary. In the aftermath of that announcement, the Archbishop of KL, Tan Sri Murphy Pakiam had openly called for the publishers as well as the journalists involved to apologize to the Catholic church.

The apology was posted on the magazine's website on March 6th as well as in the April 2010 issue of the magazine. Tan Sri Murphy gracefully accepted the apology and has stated that he considered the matter to be closed.

As such, as Catholics, I believe that we need to allow whatever personal hatred or anger over this issue to pass. It was said that to err is human, to forgive divine. Let us not harbor any further resentment over this matter any longer.

I may have erred in posting my thoughts which admittedly was written with indignation months ago, but having done so I believe that the post should remain as a reminder of our failings as humans.

Posted: April 28th, 12:11pm

Eveerything's Gonna Be Alright

Note: I wrote this piece on Sunday, January 10th this year sometime past midnight. It was prompted by the scenes that unfolded over the last few days where a few attacks were launched at churches nationwide...

I wrote this piece 3 times but is still unable to post... Will post in the morning when I get the wi-fi up and running... Mobile internet seems to be hay-wired tonight...

Well, I eventually managed to get my connection sorted out so here goes the 4th rewriting of this particular piece...

I was a bit blur when someone said those words to me earlier on Saturday...

For a second there I thought I was dreaming in lalaland... There I was walking in T-shirt, shorts & sandals being approached by this sweet lady probably in her mid twenties offering me a stalk of chrysanthemum... The bubble burst though as I saw others were doing the same... Hahahah... Like anyone can interest me... :p (Note: My mind is set on the one and only girl that has captured my heart)

Due to my sleep or rather lack of on Friday night, I was still somewhat dazed when I got up and had to run out for proper espresso before I got my day up and running... Thankfully, there's a bunch of Starbucks in BB and its' vicinity... Alternatives were also available e.g. Gloria Jeans & Coffee Bean... So espresso hunting wasn't to difficult a task...

Anyway, going back to the main piece, a succession of triple espressos did wonders in clearing the cobwebs... And I was somewhat piqued by what was happening... It was curious to say the least as there were around 30 or so youths distributing flowers...

With my curiosity level enough to kill a cat nine times, I went on and approached one of this flower activists... Now I'm using the word activist in a good sense, mindful of the so called activists who were against the Vietnam war previously in the United States... For the uninitiated, they put stalks of roses into the gun barrels of the soldiers... It gave birth to the song "Where Have All The Flowers Gone?"

So, naturally I asked what was all this about. He told me that this was the reactions to the arson attacks the previous day on churches in the Klang valley... They were sending out a message to all malaysians that we are united and we will respect each other...

Echoing his words was a banner measuring about 5-6 feet long with colourful letters spelling the words... It was obviously a rush job but it was probably one of the best banners I have seen in a long time... This is simply because the banner proclaimed words of faith, hope, belief and probably more importantly solidarity irregardless of race, colour, religion and any separating standards humanity created... Amazing what four words can do...

It certainly warms the heart that these youngsters were mindful of such matters... What was supposed to be a decadent generation has shamed the others by leading an act of goodwill towards not only one of their own but to others, reaching out to humanity...

I think it is best to set aside any feeling of anger, hatred, animosity and hostility... God in any name did not and will not condone what has happened whatever the reasons or justification behind it... Are we really that unreasonable that a compromise cannot be reached over this matter?

Let us not aggravate this matter further... Let justice runs it course and accept that as what is willed by God... Let not these cracks widen to a chasm which would be unbridgable...

To Christians in general and Catholics in particular, remain steadfast in your faith... What God puts you to, He'll put you through... Pray instead for everyone, the country, the leaders, the people and humanity... Let common sense prevail in these hours of crisis...

And my dear sisters and brothers, let us forgive each other... Whatever the fault, whatever the slight... Remember what our Lord said, "Forgive them for they know not what they are doing..."

Thy Lord has not forsaken thee...

Let There Be Peace

This was an interesting blog entry that I came across in the aftermath of the church arson and related matters which happened several months back... Perhaps if Malaysians want to know how to live in harmony, it's best the look at how innocent kids treat each other without the prejudice imbued in them by corrupted adult minds...

I recalled the day after the attacks, a bunch of youngsters of different backgrounds, race and I assume, religion came together and gathered at Bukit Bintang's traffic light giving flowers to passers by... I wrote a blog entry on that as well which I will copy into this blog after this posting.

Why do I mention this incident? We can try to forget it as a crazy moment in the history of our nation and just dismiss it or we can accept that it is a festering problem that can only get worst... I still believe that we have to reach out and turn the other cheek, even if it hurts... As Mother Theresa said once, " You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God, it was never between you and them anyway..."

Let There Be Peace ....
Jan 12, 2010 05:40 AM

I may be crucified or excommunicated by this, but what the heck. I believe that this may be a solution for everyone. It's never a shame to concede for others. Merely living what the Lord wants us to.

Every year on January 1st, Catholics around the world would gather in cathedrals, churches and chapels to pray for peace. The prayers are offered not only for themselves but for all others, inclusive so to speak. I attended one such service this year where everyone fervently offered prayers for the church, the congregation, their neighbors, the country and generally for humanity.

How quickly things can change in this age. There seems to be a general feeling of hostility and mistrust between religions which if left unchecked would lead to the detriment of the nation. The arson attacks on several churches has shattered the long held belief that one of the safest place for Christians worldwide would be in a church.

We may choose to ignore it but the reality is the nation currently having a nightmare that threatens to become a reality. It would take just that one small spark to set off a powder keg of chaos. And unless we close ranks and unite, a tragedy could be just around the corner.

In these troubled times, a moment of reflection and a cool head is a necessity for each and every one of us. Do our words, deeds and actions contribute to the solution or are we fanning the flames further? Or are we content to just sit back and watch events unfold believing that it is the responsibility of others to solve this malaise we are in?

Lest we forget that Malaysia is our country, our nation to be proud of and to defend when in peril. It belongs to you as much as it belongs to me. Would we stand by the sidelines and watch our property be destroyed by others or would we take action to protect it?

We are in a crisis. A crisis of trust and acceptance or rather, lack of it. A crisis which can bring the edifice of this great nation to tumble down in ruins. A crisis that is like a hemorrhage that if not stemmed would bring our proud nation down to its’ knees.

We are brought up in a society that demands something for everything. I was told by an acquaintance as recently as last year that an acceptable solution and usually the only solution has to be a win-win situation. We are taught to ensure that whatever we have to offer is offered something to our benefit in return. But perhaps this time someone would have to concede defeat in order to allow the festering wounds to heal.

Our youth had made a stand by telling the nation that “Everything’s gonna be alright.” I was one of those who were lucky enough to have received a stalk of flower from our very own flower activists reminiscent of their popular predecessors who opposed the Vietnam war decades back. What struck me was attitude in which they went about saying reassuring everyone with a smile to go along with it.

Echoing their thoughts was the banner which they carried around. Obviously prepared in haste, it was colorful and striking. Many would even say that it was badly written but then that would be missing the point. For me, the banner was one of faith, hope and belief. That is what matters. People of different race, religious beliefs, backgrounds and whatever standard the society judges on came together to make their stand clear and their voices heard.

Every religion promotes peace, understanding as well as respect. It is unfortunate that among us, they are opportunists with hidden agendas who may play master puppeteer for their own interest. Islam is not anti Christianity and neither is Christianity anti Islam. But as the saying goes, it takes but one rotten apple to spoil the whole basket.

Let us all regardless of faith offer up prayers asking for calm heads in the swirling storm that is massing ahead. Also that the leaders of the nation as well as the religious leaders be given wisdom, discernment as well as an open heart to work hand in hand to solve this matter that will not cause further a further crack in the already fragile state the nation is in. Let us not allow these cracks to widen to an unbridgeable chasm before we decide to take action.

I am not a religious man by any lengths. I cannot speak on behalf of the Muslims in the country. Neither am I qualified to speak for my brethrens who share my faith. But I do have a plea to my sisters and brothers in the Catholic faith. In the interest of peace as well as the country we call home, perhaps it is time to take the first step towards reconciliation and healing. Please consider dropping our claims for the right to use the word “Allah” in our publications, printed materials and worship.

If there is one thing I am sure of about the God I have faith in is that whatsoever name we refer Him as, it would be meaningless if our hearts are filled with all kind of putrid hatred, hostility or anger. Would winning the ‘right’ to use the word “Allah” ensure that our prayers would reach the Lord in heaven? Would it be too much for us all to sacrifice for the greater good and more importantly for peace? Is there no sense of forgiveness in our heart that we are so hell-bent to take the fight to the distance over the word.

When I woke up on this day, the furthest thing in my mind was to write this plea to my fellow Catholics. But having attended the evening service today in church left me feeling somewhat melancholic. As I regularly attend this particular service, the church would normally be packed to the brim every weekend. However, today the church was half full. Is paranoia over safety keeping the absentees away?

Are we only going to act when services are called off due to threats or lack of a congregation? Would it be satisfying then to have fought for our rights to the word “Allah”? All it takes is for a few irresponsible persons to start a wave of attack which strikes fear into every Catholic. And when the provocateur gets to the nerves of their target, who’s to say what will or will not happen? Let us be mindful that in order to bring change to the world, we have to take the first step ourselves.

Many Catholics may be familiar with this song which is commonly sung on January 1st every year. Perhaps, we should reflect on the words rather than making rash decisions which we may live to regret.

Let there be peace on earth
And let it begin with me
Let there be peace on earth
The peace that was meant to be
With God as our Father
Brothers all are we
Let me walk with my brothers
In perfect harmony

Let peace begin with me
Let this be the moment now
With every step I take
Let this be my solemn vow
To take each moment
And live each moment
In peace eternally
Let there be peace on earth
And let it begin with me…

God bless Malaysia and Malaysians…

Note: It warmed my heart to see that CHOICE KL took the non confrontational stance when the Coordinator, Mr Lincoln Lee sending out an email asking the Choicees to pray for everyone involved in the incidets. If memory serves me right, the intention was offered during Mass at Our Lady of Lourdes, Klang earlier this year...

The Prodigal Son

I recently went on a self imposed exile in order to evaluate facets of my life which may have been found wanting.

For some reason or another, since I attended CHOICE, most if not all of my confessions have been somewhat the most sincere conversations I have had in my lifetime with a fellow human being. Before my meandering away from the church for many a year, I approached confession as a tedious affair. Something I have to go through at least twice a year, pre-Christmas and pre-Easter.

Since returning to the fold like the prodigal son, I have tried to live life the way I'm supposed to. But alas, I am only human. I have yet to rid myself of all my vices which I have been comfortable with all the while. And it doesn't get easier either. From a free spirit who didn't give a damn about what was happening around him, to someone who needs to stop every few moments thinking if what I've just done or what I'm going to do is the right thing.

I guess having gone down this road where my colorful past was haunting me in many ways I can certainly feel God's love in the actions and words of people closest to me. I have disappointed a lot of people with my actions and of course betrayed their trust in me. For all my actions, I'm truly sorry. I hope that one day soon, I would be able to face up to it and say it in person.

So, perhaps CHOICE has made a difference in a more profound manner than I actually thought. For some reason or another, I didn't think that I'd end up writing all this as well as the previous post when I woke up today. But I guess that in order to start any healing process, there is a need to seek forgiveness.

A song that was played recently during the Lenten season, The Prodigal Son stirred something deep inside. I first heard that song some 10 years or so previously when I attended a Mass at my home parish. The next time I heard it was at the funeral of a dear family friend who died a tragic and to a certain extent, lonely death.

The song goes as follows;

Father I have sinned
Help me find my way
Remember not my sins
Just let me hear you say

I forgive you, I love you
You are mine, Take my hands
Go in peace, Sin no more
Beloved one

Father I have turned
My back and walked away
Depended on my strength
And loved life my own way

I forgive you, I love you
You are mine, Take my hands
Go in peace, Sin no more
Beloved one

Father I have closed
My heart to those in need
Thought only of myself
A victim of my greed

I forgive you, I love you
You are mine, Take my hands
Go in peace, Sin no more
Beloved one

Father I have loved
If love is the word to use
I've played so many games
They've left me so confused

I forgive you, I love you
You are mine, Take my hands
Go in peace, Sin no more
Beloved one

Father I've returned
I'm home with you to stay
Standing by your door
Knowing you will say

I forgive you, I love you
You are mine, Take my hands
Go in peace, Sin no more
Beloved one

When I heard the song sung at my friend's funeral, I can only sob uncontrollably. Even until today, whenever I revisit the memories of that sad day by watching a recording of the funeral, I am still moved to shed a tear for him.

A Story

An extremely virulent disease was hitting the world. It started out in Africa and it spread like wild bushfire that was assisted by the billowing winds.

Within 6 weeks of it's discovery, there wasn't a place in the world where it hasn't spread its' deadly tentacles to.

The unnamed disease was so widespread that a team of scientist was assembled from amongst the finest minds in the world of medicine, virology, biology etc. This team was kept in a self contained facility drilled deep into the side of Mount Kinabalu, the highest peak in South East Asia. Their brief was simple, find a way to stop the disease before it wipes out humanity from the face of the earth.

Six months had passed since the first case was reported. 700 million has died since then with some 1.5 billion more stricken with various stages of the disease. Death was in fact welcome for those who were infected. The deterioration of the body as the disease sucks the life out of the sufferers was more dreadful than death itself.

Many in the world was in despair. They were staring at death in the eyes but are unable to do anything about it... Some turned to their faith and believed that God has a plan despite the suffering while others cursed whichever God they had put their trust in the past over this malaise. Others still sit in utter despair and hopelessness not knowing what else can they do.

The scientist on the other hand, were close to developing a serum to fight the disease. Teams were sent worldwide to collect blood samples from the uninfected in order to learn of their body to withstand the infection.

As the saying goes, it is always the darkest before the dawn. From the depths of despair, a news flash came through like a shining light in the darkness. The scientist have a breakthrough!

As the news filtered through all channels worldwide, people rejoiced with reckless abandon. Strangers were hugging, kissing and dancing in the streets without a care in the world. Civilization was going to be safe after all!

Martin was standing at his porch admiring the beautiful sunset whilst thinking of the plans he had for the future which he feared he would never accomplished just days before. He was jolted back into reality when a convoy of police vehicles and what looked like an ambulance stopped in front of his house with the lights flashing and sirens blaring.

He was approached by two police officers who confirmed his identity before asking him of the whereabouts of his son, Joshua. Martin was bewildered and sought an explanation as to what the police wanted with his son, who was only 6 years old.

A man in a white lab coat introduced himself as Dr Lucian took Martin aside and explained that based on the test that was conducted with blood samples worldwide, it was discovered that Joshua's blood was totally immune to the dreaded disease. In fact, it was from his blood sample that the serum was formulated.

As Joshua was taken to the hospital accompanied by the police outriders, Martin was extremely proud of the fact that Joshua would provide the serum that would save the world. Despite Joshua's apparent fear, Martin soothed him with words of encouragement and praise.

Joshua was wheeled into a examination room at the hospital where a bit of his blood would be extracted for the serum production. Martin waited in the visitor's area with a sense of foreboding and trepidation which belied his earlier pride.

After a while, Dr Lucian came out of the room with a grave look apparent on his face. Martin asked immediately if anything was wrong with Joshua's blood. Dr Lucian shook his head and sighed deeply before explaining the situation at hand to Martin.

Joshua's blood was a proven factor in combating the disease. However, due to the amount of serums needed worldwide, a lot of Joshua's blood is needed to formulate the mass production of the serum. As a result of that, Joshua will not be able to survive such a scenario considering his tender years.

Martin was distraught when he heard this. He was unwilling to sacrifice his son in order to save the whole world. This can't be right can it?

After some moments of reflection and prayer, Martin was resigned to the fact that he has to make the biggest sacrifice a father can make. He has to give up his son in order to save the world.

When Martin spoke to Joshua one last time before the procedure, he held back the tears when the angelic boy asked him, "Father, why did you let them prick me with the painful needles?"

He was at a lost for an answer. Instead, he just said, "I'm sorry son. One day the world will understand what you have gone through..."

Dr Lucian tapped Martin on the shoulder saying, "It is time..."

3 months later
__________

A memorial service was held at the biggest venue in the land. Some 150,000 attended the service. It was attended by the heads of nations, royalties and the common public alike.

Martin was seated at the front of the service as he heard of re-enactment of what happened the fateful day when he lost his little angel. He was touched by the words of consolation and appreciation that was expressed by those invited to speak.

As he turned to survey the crowd behind him, he was seething with anger and despair. He saw amongst the crowd many were in conversation with each other, half asleep or merely texting on their mobile devices.

In his frustration he stood up and said, " Can't you all even spare an hour or so in remembrance and respect of the son I have lost in order to save all of you? "

Epilogue
______

I was one of the crowd in the past. I walked away from the church perhaps subconsciously putting the blame on God for all the misadventures which had befallen me.

I was unwilling to spend an hour weekly in memorial of a loving and merciful God who had sacrificed His only Son for my salvation. I went into a self imposed isolation and lived a life devoid of any personal relationships sans my working one.

I stayed away for a good 7 years before I ventured back to church due to some unexplained longing in my heart. And the very first Mass I attended in donkey years introduced me to CHOICE.

And thanks to CHOICE, I am slowly learning to let go of the past that has plagued me for many years. What would the future hold for me? Of that I'm unsure... But I do know who walks by my side day by day...

Note: My apologies if the story seems a bit disjointed. I wrote it out within 40 minutes. Just got carried away when I started writing. Maybe, I should take a journalistic course to pen better...

All Choicees Hear Ye Hear Ye!!!!

I may have started this blog with very good intentions in mind. However, with each passing moment, I would be running out of contents to update this blog as well as to keep it relevant with present times...

As such, I would be very grateful if any Choicees are willing to chip in with their two cents worth from time to time. I would happily add you in as a team member which would allow you to post whatever updates on the blog. Think of it as a way of keeping me honest and not deviate from the objectives of the setting up of this blog in the first place.

Do drop me a line if you'd like to be added as a team member and I'll be happy to welcome you aboard as we set sail into the sunset... And towards the discovery of a new world perhaps??? ;)

Disclaimer: The writer is a wee bit loco from time to time, so please disregard his sometimes lame jokes and cliche laden posts...

Toh che siew che & si sang... :p

About CHOICE (Unofficially)

This post starts with a caveat.

The views in this particular post belongs only to the author. It should not be considered the official view nor does it reflect the official stance of CHOICE movement. If in any doubt, kindly contact CHOICE KL Coordinators through www.choicekl.org.

Well... What is CHOICE all about? Personally, I believe that CHOICE will enable you to discover yourself and make you appreciate life more...

In this rat race that we all fall in to, we are faced with tremendous pressures from within and without that sometimes lead us down the wrong path. What happens then? Do we give up to whatever comes at the end of that road? Or do we turn back and start all over?

Starting over is probably the most difficult thing to do in our life. If you have been in a relationship before which unfortunately ended, I guess that waking up the day after the break up was probably a difficult thing to do right? I mean having to face the world after a night (probably) of tossing and turning in bed unable to sleep nor unwilling to face that it is over. When morning has broken, you just wish you could crawl under the blanket and not having to get up right?

In this current society where we have all kinds of social networking websites, the pain that a break up can cause may be even greater. Image the day after when you log on into your Facebook account and saw the relationship status part now blank after your ex removes you from the list. I read an article somewhere recently which pointed out that "unfriending" someone from Facebook is a cruel and thoughtless action. I don't disagree with that view.

If you think such a situation is bad, what about someone losing the one they love... For good?

Death is never an easy thing to face. We can console the bereaved with kind and thoughtful words, but does it actually lessen the pain? I think not. Having faced such a scenario before, I can't even remember who were at the funeral on that day. I could remember shaking hands with a long line but their consoling words were somewhat hollow in the circumstances.

I guess that in life, the only constant is change. There will always be changes brought about by the many variables in the world. There can be changes in relationship, work, technology etc.

CHOICE made me realize what I have been missing in my life. A support group... People who won't (I think) prejudge you as you go through your ups and downs in life. People who are willing to help you as and when you require it. They will laugh with you in your times of joys and ecstasy but won't let you cry alone when you just can't help shedding those tears...

I think CHOICE is about lasting relationships... Friendship till the end...

And what we wouldn't give to have that?

Shepherds Fold website

I stumbled upon this website as I was searching for some bible references earlier. I thought that it may be a good website to bookmark for times when you need some assistance and/or guidance from above... The web address is www.shepherdsfold.com

I thought that it was well designed and set up. Clutter free navigation and the fact that it featured the rosary as well as the chaplet of mercy seems suspiciously Catholic... :)

Some verses on faith and trust

(James 1:3) 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance.

(Hebrews 11:1) 1 Now faith is assurance of things hoped for, proof of things not seen.

(Luke 7:50) 50 He said to the woman, "“Your faith has saved you. Go in peace.”"

(Mark 16:16) 16 He who believes and is baptized will be saved; but he who disbelieves will be condemned.

(Matthew 9:29) 29 Then he touched their eyes, saying, "“According to your faith be it done to you.”"

(Ephesians 2:8) 8 for by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God,

(I John 5:4) 4 For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world: your faith.

(I John 5:14) 14 This is the boldness which we have toward him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us.

(Ephesians 6:16) 16 above all, taking up the shield of faith, with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the evil one.

(James 1:6) 6 But let him ask in faith, without any doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, driven by the wind and tossed.

(John 3:36) 36 One who believes in the Son has eternal life, but one who disobeys the Son won’t see life, but the wrath of God remains on him.”

(Matthew 9:22) 22 But Jesus, turning around and seeing her, said, "“Daughter, cheer up! Your faith has made you well.”" And the woman was made well from that hour.

(Hebrews 11:6) 6 Without faith it is impossible to be well pleasing to him, for he who comes to God must believe that he exists, and that he is a rewarder of those who seek him.

(Luke 17:6) 6 The Lord said, "“If you had faith like a grain of mustard seed, you would tell this sycamore tree, ‘Be uprooted, and be planted in the sea,’ and it would obey you.

(Mark 9:23-24) 23 Jesus said to him, "“If you can believe, all things are possible to him who believes.”" 24 Immediately the father of the child cried out with tears, “I believe. Help my unbelief!”

(Mark 11:23-24) 23 For most certainly I tell you, whoever may tell this mountain, ‘Be taken up and cast into the sea,’ and doesn’t doubt in his heart, but believes that what he says is happening; he shall have whatever he says. 24 Therefore I tell you, all things whatever you pray and ask for, believe that you have received them, and you shall have them.

(James 2:14-17) 14 What good is it, my brothers, if a man says he has faith, but has no works? Can faith save him? 15 And if a brother or sister is naked and in lack of daily food, 16 and one of you tells them, “Go in peace, be warmed and filled;” and yet you didn’t give them the things the body needs, what good is it? 17 Even so faith, if it has no works, is dead in itself.

(James 2:19-24) 19 You believe that God is one. You do well. The demons also believe, and shudder. 20 But do you want to know, vain man, that faith apart from works is dead? 21 Wasn’t Abraham our father justified by works, in that he offered up Isaac his son on the altar? 22 You see that faith worked with his works, and by works faith was perfected; 23 and the Scripture was fulfilled which says, “Abraham believed God, and it was accounted to him as righteousness;” and he was called the friend of God. 24 You see then that by works, a man is justified, and not only by faith.

Shout To The Lord at Holy Rosary Brickfields

My Jesus, my Saviour
Lord there is none like You
All of my days I want to praise
The wonders of Your mighty love

My comfort, my shelter
Tower of refuge and strength
Let every breath, all that I am
Never cease to worship You

Shout to the Lord
All the Earth, let us sing
Power and majesty
Praise to the King
Mountains bow down
And the seas will roar
At the sound of Your name

I sing for joy at the works
Of Your hands
Forever I'll love You
Forever I'll stand
Nothing compares
To the promise I have
In You

I was at Holy Rosary Church (HRC) , Brickfields last Saturday attending the Sunset Mass & Novena service. Admittedly I went there as I had wanted to catch a football match that evening which was scheduled to start at 7:40pm.

Having been to a number of churches in KL, I found that the atmosphere at HRC was a rather quaint and it reminded me a lot of my earlier years when I started to understand more about the religion.

Why so you may ask? Coming from a parish where the Mass moves methodically, I was under the impression that things were a bit messy here in KL. Having been an altar server for close to six years was an excellent education on the significance of the rites etc.

At HRC however, it seemed like a throwback in time. Like I was taken to an age perhaps 15 years ago as I was growing up. Instead of the normal multimedia projector, HRC uses old school OHP (overhead projectors). Now that really reminds me of my responsibilities in secondary school. I was usually sweetly asked by the teachers to go down 2-3 flights of stairs to collect the OHP for use of the class. And after the class was over, I had to return it to the staff room again. Little wonder that I was the defending champion in the throwing events for 5 consecutive years then. Must be the weight I was carrying up and down the stairs daily.

Another anomaly was that Novena to Our Blessed Mother and Benediction is done after Mass. As such the whole service ends around 6:45pm. I have rediscovered the benediction after being shorned of it for over a decade.

Back in my home parish, I could vaguely recall the parish priest informing us that Benediction can't be done before Mass or something.... Give me a break, I was like 13-14 then. As such I haven't attended a Benediction for donkey years. Add the fact that I was a "lost sheep" for a good 7 years, I definitely missed my fair share of the developments.

On new year's day this year, I was moved to attend the Peace Mass held at a church in a town where I was visiting. Lo and behold, they had the Benediction before Mass following the Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament. The words to the hymn "Mary From Thy Sacred Image" and "Down In Adoration" came effortlessly that it even surprised me. I felt a strange stirring within me as I felt warmth all over.

I found out later at the end of February that The Church of Our Lady of Fatima had Novena and Benediction at 6pm every Saturday. Since then, I had frequented the service as I offer my petitions. There's this belief that praying over intentions for 9 consecutive weekends could possibly make it come true.

I hope that's the case. I'm not keeping the score but I reckon I have been faithfully attending for about 6 or 7 weeks now discounting Easter Triduum where there wasn't a service scheduled.

I apologize as I'm going off track. I included this song as a posting as it is a song that I haven't heard since my days with Young Christian Students (YCS) back in school. I was pleasantly surprised to hear it being played again after over 15 years.

Anyways, have a blessed evening and week ahead. No guarantees when will my next post be. Please feel free to comment and propose what I should write about.

CHOICE FAQs

This FAQs was adapted from the websites of CHOICE KL & CHOICE Singapore

What is CHOICE?

CHOICE is a weekend experience, to give young single adults the opportunity to meet like-minded people, and be able to look at the various relationships in our lives e.g. family, friends, Church etc, in a relaxed and informal environment.

Tens of thousands have attended a Choice programme Weekend in more than 10 countries including Japan, Korea, Malaysia, Indonesia, Taiwan, USA and UK. It is about people: the important people in our lives, how we communicate with them; and it is about ourselves: the decisions we make, making a commitment to be free. I

Who is CHOICE for?

CHOICE in Malaysia is for Working Adults age 23 to 40, for those of us who would like to take a break from fast-paced urgency-driven activities in favor of time to reflect, recharge and consider what matters most, in life, in the next month, in the next year. It is open to anyone, Christians & Catholics, Buddhists, all faiths and free-thinkers. This is because the content of the program is universal in nature, focusing on communication skills, people and choices. Participants often come with working colleagues and their classmates from various faiths.

Is a CHOICE Weekend suitable for non-Catholics ?

The CHOICE Weekend is a Catholic program that focuses on the relationships in our daily lives, with family, friends, loved ones and God. It is NOT a program to Convert non-Christians. As this is a Catholic program, there are elements of practices of the Catholic faith throughout the program including reading from the Bible, and Mass. For participants who are not of the Catholic faith, extra sensitivities are taken to ensure that the participant is comfortable and is able to understand the program

Isn't CHOICE a sort of match-making program?

Not at all. The emphasis is to love, not to look for love. The program is applicable to everyone including priest and religious.

What happens on a CHOICE Weekend?

We would love to tell you what happens in a CHOICE Weekend, but we really do not want to spoil the experience for you. The CHOICE weekend is best experienced, when you come with minimal expectations of the weekend. What we can say is that it is a retreat from our everyday hectic lives, to reflect and reconnect with God. The CHOICE weekend is NOT a counseling experience, nor is it a "match-making" weekend, nor recruitment for vocations nor a conversion/introduction to Catholism weekend.

Why the name CHOICE?

The choices we make in our lives determine the direction of our lives. All that goes on around us frequently lead us to lose sight of what is really important in life - love. Do we make our decisions based on love? Not the kind of love that is shown on TV but the kind that makes us loving - the kind of love prescribed by Christ - being patient, humble, understanding, never jealous, always encouraging, giving special care to your enemies, bearing the faults of others, forgiving, etc. How we make our choices does affect others around us, directly or indirectly. The aim is not just to improve decision making but to lead our hearts beyond materialism, status, money, power, fame, laws based on fear, and even our ideas about love.

Who runs CHOICE?

CHOICE is run by volunteers, Catholics from all over , from various parishes, and all walks of life and a myriad of backgrounds. There are priests, nuns, brothers, couples and singles. Most if not all are former Choicees (those who have completed the weekend program)

Is CHOICE a local program, or is it international?

CHOICE began in the United States in 1976. It was brought to Singapore in 1981. Choice has spread to many countries including Malaysia, Indonesia, Japan, Korea and Taiwan. While there are standard programs and formats, Choice in each country is local in nature appropriate to the needs of the society. Choice Singapore however is also part of Choice Asia which is made up of the countries stated above. Choice Asia do come together to share experiences and keep in touch with each other.

What do I need to bring for CHOICE ?

Please remember to bring along any necessary toiletries I.e soap, shampoo, toothpaste, toothbrush and towels. If you are on medication, please bring it along as well. You do not need to bring your Bible or Rosary.

Where is CHOICE held?

The venue for each CHOICE Weekend may change. Please always refer to the website (www.choicekl.org) or check with any of our team to confirm the venue Do note that the weekend is residential and commences at approx. 7.pm on Friday and ends at around 7.pm on Sunday.

How much does CHOICE cost?

The cost for each weekend varies based on locations, states or languages.. Our CHOICE Team, takes a lot of effort in ensuring that the CHOICE weekend is affordable to as many potential participants. The registration fee is used to cover the cost of accommodation , food and materials.

What if I cannot afford the registration fees but I still want to attend CHOICE?

Please contact any of the recruitment team, or approach your Parish Priest, and explain your situation. No one should be prevented from coming to a CHOICE weekend because he/she can't afford it. All request made to the CHOICE team is treated in confidence. Info on the contact persons can be found at www.choicekl.org

I would like to speak to someone from CHOICE. Why can't I find any phone numbers on your website ?

We apologise for not posting up any phone numbers on our website for the well-being of our team members.

If you would like to contact us, please do send us an email at info@choicekl.org. One of our team members will be in contact with you shortly.

Note: Please direct any inquiries or registration through www.choicekl.org. This blog is only meant to share my experiences where CHOICE is concerned. Thanks

About CHOICE (Officially)

About CHOICE

Tens of thousands have attended a CHOICE program Weekend in more than 10 countries including Singapore, Japan, Korea, Indonesia, Taiwan, USA and UK. CHOICE in Malaysia is for Single Adults (does not include divorcees or single parents), age 23 - 40 years, for those who would like to take a break from the hustle-bustle of life in favor of time to reflect, recharge and consider what matters most in life; important people in our lives and how we communicate with them; and love, the kind of love prescribed by Christ.

CHOICE is an outreach program for Single Adults developed through the generosity and selfless love of the Worldwide Marriage Encounter Family. The outreach presents in a positive way what belonging in a relationship means, the consequences and the conditions of belonging and the question of “DO YOU WANT TO BELONG?”. It also fosters and creates an environment in which Single Adults and others share life experiences on a personal level. This stimulating experience in personal relationships seeks to impart a sense of belonging, mission and purpose in life. It is an exploration of relationships and creates a growing depth of trust and communication.

VISION OF THE CHOICE PROGRAMME

CHOICE - " Christ Heals One in CHOICE Experience"

a. To bring about a “change of heart” in the single adult through the intense EXPERIENCE OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE during a Choice Weekend.

b. Consequently, assisting the single adult to re-discover and internalize the importance of true belonging in his relationship and the power of unconditional love. In short, to initiate the process of transformation in the single adult.

For more information, please check out www.choicekl.org

Road Of Our Lives

We are traveling the road of our lives
Finding our way with the will to survive
Dealing with the lows and the highs
Day by day

On our journey we will do the best we can
If we stumble and fall and we struggle to stand
Lift us up with your helping hand
We’ll be on our way

Whatever you do, I’ll walk with you
Hoping that your every dream will come true
Anytime anywhere, I’ll always be there
Wishing you love and happiness because I care

When it’s shining bright I’ll be by your side
And in the darkness of night, I’ll be there to guide
Holding on to each other tight
Come what may

As we travel down the road of our lives
Making our way with a dream and the drive
Trading the lows for the highs
Day by day

Whatever you do, I’ll walk with you
Hoping that your every dream will come true
Anytime anywhere, I’ll always be there
Wishing you love and happiness because I care

Whatever you do, I’ll walk with you
Hoping that your every dream will come true
Anytime anywhere, I’ll always be there
Wishing you love and happiness because I care
Bringing you love and happiness because I care

This song was supposedly sung by Martin Nievara of Phillipines. I first heard it at the CHOICE weekend held in KL.

For some reason, it was a song that touched me deeply. Probably my experience with CHOICE did actually make a difference in my life. For those of you who think that CHOICE is a weekend spent for matchmaking or to promote religious vocations, please rid yourself of such thoughts. It is a weekend that may (probably would actually) change your outlook towards life.

Even the toughest of hearts would struggle to get through the weekend without shedding tears, be it tears of sadness, regret or joy. And you may just make friendships that would last a lifetime. Something not commonly found in these times and age.

Need I say more?

The Logo

Taken from www.choicekl.org.

The HEART symbolizes the single adult, capable of loving and being loved. The word, “CHOICE” within the heart signifies the adult’s ability to choose to belong and be involved with others. The CROSS, placed beneath the heart, symbolizes Christ – the embodiment of unconditional love. It is with this unique love that the must love and serve: to lay down one’s life out of love. The motto, “TO KNOW, LOVE AND SERVE YOU” expresses a personal love that is informed, affectionate and manifested in acts of love and service. It guides and inspires the adult to strive for a deeper, more trusting and loving, relationship with the family, friends, Church and the whole world.

Hola

Welcome to this blog!

I am guessing that you have stumbled into this blog via a Google search in your vain attempts to gather more information on what happens at a CHOICE weekend. Well, I may be able to help you. But a word of caution is in order here...

If you expect to know the issues and/or topics to be discussed over the weekend, you may find yourself somewhat disappointed. If you expect that this blog will be one where the activities which will be taking place amidst all the hush hush, again it would be in vain.

Being a Choicee myself, we were made to take a serious oath of secrecy. Not that we are an outlawed cult or anything. mind you. But as you read on in the blog, I hope to be able to convince you (if you are still not convinced yet) to make a leap of faith and sign up.

I just read Dan Brown's latest novel "The Lost Symbol" recently (I know it was out a while back, but the price of the hard cover version made me hesitate) and Robert Langdon quoted a Mason's saying, "All will be revealed at the 33rd Degree". Choice is something like the Mason's I guess, except that all will not be revealed at the 33rd Degree, but the picture will be clearer at the end of the weekend...

Am I making sense so far?

Before going further, I need to stress that this blog is written anonymously. I have heard the horrors of the recruitment of participants for the weekend where the guys shy away from the weekend. As such, unable to contribute much of my time to the activities of the weekend, I hope to chip in to assist allay the fears of those who may be somewhat reluctant to commit themselves to a live in weekend... For the guys, this weekend can potentially change your life, so please sign up!!! WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?

For the gals, well, I heard that recruitment was never a problem for their end. But still, I hope you'd sign up for future weekends should the coming one be closed for you due to over subscription... The gals seem more adventurous than the guys in this case.

A lot of the info which forms the basis of my writing are from my own personal experiences with CHOICE. Also, Choice KL's website has been most educational. For those of you who want to check out their website, it can be found at www.choicekl.org.

You can also sign-up for the coming weekend at the said website. Please bear in mind that this blog page is not a recruitment website. As such should you require further clarification/assistance, please checkout CHOICE KL's website. You can also obtain information (I think) from the Archdiocesan Single Adults And Youth Office (ASAYO) located next to St John's Cathedral, Jalan Bukit Nanas, KL. Their contact nos are 03-20707660 or 03-20706101.

If there are any mistakes or offensive postings, please forgive me. It was never my intention to hurt nor offend anybody with my writing. Should that be the case, do send me a heads up via email & I'll do the needful to rectify the matter. And for Choicees who want to share their two pennies worth, don't hesitate to let me know!

Agape...